Maria Garrido22:11
That's a great question, and that isn't always easy, mentor, but I have to take a deep breath when I go into those kinds of be like, like a couple of 10 minutes of deep breaths before I go in, and I've had to teach myself to not be the good student and respond, but to go, you know what, I don't have that information, I'll get back to you. You know, because I know there's no way I can have every single figure in my head. I'd be making it up if I did that, you know? So, I have to, it's very, it's like you're holding back a dam. It's not very easy to do. And I think experience, I think we put too much weight on these situations. You know, they're individual situations. The sum of the parts is not, has nothing to do with that individual situation. So, I try to take a bit of distance from that moment of discomfort where instead of becoming defensive, because that's so obvious. That's so, it's actually better for me to go, 'You know what? I actually don't know, but I know where to get the information and I'll get back to you,' you know?
About fifteen years ago I started going on wellness retreats for my own sanity. I'm a single mom with three boys. I left a very abusive relationship that has kept me busy in court for many, many years. I had a very demanding job, and I thought I was going to do everything and pull off everything. I didn't have a nervous breakdown, but I came pretty close multiple times. And my instinct wasn't that I'm not paying enough attention to my kids, my employees, my team, my friends, but that I needed to start paying a little bit of attention to myself. So I booked myself on a wellness retreat on a whim, and it gave me permission to pause, which I'm very bad at. I've never been diagnosed as hyperactive, but it's difficult for me to slow down in every aspect of my life because I have an endless to-do list that just keeps going. Whatever I scratch off, new things get added below.
So I started doing the retreats. I have always gone by myself. If I was on business trips in Singapore, I'd tack on a four-day retreat in Indonesia for the weekend. Anything I could figure out to give myself a bit of time to exist as a human being — not as a mom, not as a boss, not as a friend, but as a woman and a human being. And they were so beneficial to me over the years that I sort of started cherry-picking what I liked about each one, and I thought, someday when I retire, I would love to build a business that does for other people what this has done for me.
I built the business plan and I knew I wanted to do it in Galicia in the northwest coast of Spain. My family is from there. I wanted to contribute to that community, and all the boxes checked out. I had a lot of data available to me because I run the insights and analytics teams. The tourism numbers check out, the projections on Spain, the wellness is exploding. Rationally speaking, this actually makes sense. It's not just my passion project. I built a beautiful little plan, stuck it in a drawer and said, when I retire someday from the rat race of the corporate world, I'll do this.
And COVID hit, and the only trip I was taking was to see my elderly parents in Galicia. So I was like, okay, I'm just going to start familiarizing myself with the real estate. What's out here? I don't even know if what I'm looking for exists. Really casually I walked into the fourth property I visited, and I was with my oldest son. Ten minutes in I went, I have to do this now. I always make this joke that I've never fallen in love with a man like I've fallen in love with that house. It was instant. The property owns a mountain spring. There was the sound of fresh running water overlooking the ocean surrounded by a eucalyptus forest. The space gave you permission to pause. It was feeding my soul. I said, this is it. I can't wait till I retire. So I purchased the property, hired some interior designers to gut the place, and we opened in the summer of 2022.
And I don't come from the hospitality business. I don't know anything about the luxury hospitality business. And I don't know anything about running a hotel. But I was so convinced of the purpose behind this project. I hired only female entrepreneurs to help me — female interior designers, female website designers, brand designers. The woman who helped me conceptualize the menu was a female-founded business.