Solomon Friedman1:41:46
Okay, so that's an interesting question. When I'm answering it, these aren't my answers — this is what I have learned from talking to sex workers. This is not my life experience. So if I can use this platform, some of their life experience, I'll do that. You speak to a sex worker and they say — you talk to an organization like Exodus Cry and Exodus Cry says, well, you wouldn't be doing this sex work if you weren't getting paid to do it. Real interesting. I don't know anybody who would be like, you know what, I wouldn't go to work at McDonald's if they didn't pay me. I'm being exploited. Or I wouldn't be a lawyer unless my clients paid me. Oh, I must be being exploited, right? So why does that view break down when it comes to sex work? That's the real question. Because of course, people do work in order to get money. That's just how capitalist society works. But why all of a sudden when it comes to sex work we say, well, I mean, you wouldn't do this for free, would you? The reason is that we have a patriarchal view, that's in some corners of our society, that says women can only use their sexuality as we have agreed upon, and if you're doing it in any other way, it must be exploitation. We completely take out the agency out of an individual making a free choice to say, this is what I want to do. Now, this conversation is more subtle than that, and I'm so blessed to have advisors who know this area so well. They say, for example, well, some people have different economic situations so they turn to sex work. People turn to working at McDonald's. People turn to other paths or streams of income. So you can do one of two things. You can say sex work bad, we will stamp it out. And I'll give you an example. I heard from a sex worker who, when Visa and Mastercard pulled the ability to process for individual content creators, she had to go to hands-on sex work. Think about that for a minute. She was doing online sex work, some webcam work as well as content creation — that is totally safe, right? In an environment where she's physically secure, where she controls the content — and she had to go into less safe areas of work. Now, there are lots of areas of work, not just sex, where there's more and less safe. It's safer to work in an office than to work in a mine. We recognize that there's degrees of safety in work. But far from Exodus Cry being her salvation, they put her in a far more precarious position by pushing this misinformation. And MindGeek, by not having the ownership who are standing up and platforming these voices, also are part of that problem, which is something we're very much trying to change. So I think that when you say sex work equals exploitation, you've instantly removed agency from millions of thinking, rational individuals who are making fundamentally free choices.