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Partner / Co-owner, Ethical Capital Partners (parent owner of Aylo/Pornhub), Aylo (formerly MindGeek) — operator of Pornhub

Pornhub's Fight Against Online Exploitation | Kim Kelley, Solomon Friedman on News Talk Radio

🎥 Jul 17, 2024 📺 Digital Defenders United ⏱ 75m
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Transcript (133 segments)
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Host0:00
We're going to talk with some folks from Pornhub. Sex trafficking — you and I talked about it for a long time. Human trafficking, sex trafficking. We're number one, we really are unfortunately when it comes to sex trafficking and human trafficking in America. But help has arrived from, I suspect, what most people would think the most unlikely source.
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Co-Host0:22
Absolutely. So we're going to find out why and how when we return.
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Host0:27
Absolutely, it's going to be a great discussion. I think it's going to be a message people are not expecting to hear, especially from a platform like Pornhub. So let's get into it.
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Co-Host0:36
I can't wait to do that. Elvis, you familiar? Can't wait. That's what I mean — you're not a good actor, big guy. So we'll get into that next.
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Host0:47
Who's going to join us? Solomon Friedman. He's actually one of the partners — so he's one of the owners. Ethical Capital Partners acquired a company that owns Pornhub and all your favorite sites.
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Co-Host0:55
Yeah, that's right. Yeah. Don't con me right here on that. There's no shame.
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Solomon Friedman1:03
So here's my mission: for the avoidance of doubt, I'm not marketing porn. I personally am not a consumer — I don't judge adults who are. But what I'm doing is keeping children out of porn. I think we can all agree on that. So what we're not doing is shaming any adult for doing adult things. What we are definitely drawing the line on is: it is not appropriate for children. Children should not be exploited. And consenting adults who enjoy adult content should not be inadvertently contributing to child harm.
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Kim Kelly1:25
Agreed. And because if 99% of adults knew what they were contributing to, they would just fall out of the chair.
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Solomon Friedman1:34
Right. Well, there's a lot of stigma involved with it, and unfortunately the whole topic of child exploitation and adult sexual entertainment has become convoluted. So whether or not you consume adult sexual entertainment is none of my business. My point is: we should all be able to agree that children don't even belong in that conversation. There is nothing pornographic about a child. It is child sex abuse material, or CSAM.
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Kim Kelly1:56
Absolutely. So again, let's keep that out of the conversation. Let's eliminate CSAM, and let's also limit children from adult content and let adults do adult things with their freedom and with safeguards.
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Host2:10
I think one of our problems in America is that we have a third-grade mentality when it comes to sex and can't even talk about important subjects like this. We think this is important enough that you folks need to listen and hear what Pornhub is doing to combat human trafficking, sex trafficking, children being trafficked for sex online, and exploitation in general.
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Solomon Friedman2:41
So there's a lot of different ways harmful things can happen to children. Any form of child sexual abuse material is absolutely exploitation. It's not always the same thing as trafficking, but it is very much related to it. So protecting children on the internet goes far beyond the porn industry. But if all we can do with this dialogue is have a solutions-oriented approach to keep child pornography away from any sort of internet platform — and by the way, that's doable, this is a solvable problem — that in and of itself is massive, not only for this generation but for the ones to come.
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Host3:16
It's going to be an interesting conversation that we kick in here in just a moment. Kim Kelly is here, and your website Kim is what? Digital Defenders United.org?
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Kim Kelly3:27
I started a nonprofit to focus on digital safety, because that's how we can combat child trafficking and exploitation in this digital age.
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Host3:33
And you were a victim of child trafficking and sex trafficking.
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Kim Kelly3:37
Absolutely. The first 20 years of my life was cult abuse including trafficking. So this comes from a deep place of passion and understanding and lived experience. And also with that solutions-oriented approach — let's not just talk about it, let's actually solve these problems, let's actually do something about it.
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Host3:54
Thank you Kim, it's great to have you here. Great to see you. Dan and Elvis, it's great to have you here as well my friend.
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Co-Host3:59
We are writing a book together. I'll tell you about that.
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Host4:03
Excited to hear. I just read the first five pages.
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Co-Host4:05
Oh, it's going to be great. To read those first five too, I'll content edit.
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Host4:09
If I had a, I'd give them to you.
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Co-Host4:12
That's another one — she won't tell you what you want to hear. She'll tell you the truth. Always.
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Host4:18
All right, we'll be right back here in the program, and we'll have a conversation. Who's — and I want you to introduce our guest here in just a moment. But one of the owners — Solomon Friedman — yes, and he will join us next.
Okay, Kim Kelly is here. Kim's website: Digital Defenders United.org. Kim, it is so good to have you back in studio.
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Kim Kelly4:37
Thank you so much, it's so great to be here.
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Host4:39
How did this relationship begin, and tell me what Pornhub is doing to help stop what's been going on in this country. We lead the world in child trafficking and human trafficking and also kiddie porn.
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Kim Kelly4:52
Absolutely. So there's a horrendous issue with child exploitation in general. We're aware that there's a lot of terrible material on the internet that doesn't belong there. But specifically when it comes to child sex abuse material, or CSAM, there is no excuse in 2024 that that material exists on the internet. And we're going to explain why. We're also going to explain, ironically, how Pornhub and their platforms are actually leading by example in doing the right thing in digital safety. So Solomon Friedman is going to join us here shortly. He's the VP of compliance — so he's one of the owners of the company that owns Pornhub and all your favorite sites. What they've done to safeguard their platforms is pretty incredible. I think the public needs to know about this. And the reason that I'm working with them: number one, child sex abuse material should not exist. And by the way, it does not exist on Pornhub or any of Pornhub's platforms. Now the public doesn't really know that. There's a lot of advocacy groups that are sort of dedicated to taking down Pornhub. But the irony is that adult content is not illegal, it's not going to go away — whether or not you love it or hate it, let's be real, it's never going away. So that's a losing battle.
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Host6:03
You don't think it's a fad?
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Kim Kelly6:05
It's been around since the beginning of millennia. I don't think anybody's going to disagree with me from a logical standpoint.
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Co-Host6:09
I know I'm playing along, but like, let's be real.
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Kim Kelly6:14
Right. I'm a realist when it comes to activism. This is not about performative activism — this is about actual solutions. So hopefully all of us can agree that child exploitation on the internet is not okay and that child sex abuse material should not exist. Also that adult content, adult sexual entertainment, should have nothing to do with children. Children should be separated from it. Abusive content should not exist. So I partnered with Pornhub as a consultant to help them with their online safety practices and advocacy. Because first of all, there's a lot to understand about the safeguards that they've implemented. And here's the main point — this is what I want the public to understand: we're going to unpack the how and the why and all the ways they do it, but I want the public to get the point — if Pornhub is monitoring each piece of content on their platform, number one, there's no child abuse material — the DOJ did a four-month investigation and verified that. Number two, they are moderating and monitoring every single piece of content. So here's my point: what's Google's excuse? What's Meta's excuse? And TikTok and Twitter and all these other platforms that are rampant with exploitative content? Huge multinational companies.
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Host7:37
Yes! If the public knew this was a solvable problem, we the people could hold big tech giants accountable, because child exploitation should not exist on the internet. That is a solvable problem. So now folks, we've brought it full circle — as now you know why Pornhub is with us today, because this should put pressure not only on these big tech giants that are doing nothing, but the politicians who are doing nothing.
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Kim Kelly7:53
Absolutely. Well, let's actually solve problems, not just write bills and put Band-Aids on things.
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Co-Host7:59
And Pornhub monitors all those videos?
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Kim Kelly8:01
Every single piece of content. Solomon's going to unpack that here with us shortly.
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Host8:06
They need some help, you know Elvis, it's a tough job.
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Co-Host8:09
Someone's got to do it, right? But see, even what we're talking about this serious matter here, I go like a child. But I think that's our problem in America — we need to address this like adults and stop pretending and do something about it.
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Kim Kelly8:25
Absolutely. There's a lot of bias — whether it be political or religious — that keep people away from this dialogue. And people have told me who know my work, 'Wow, I can't believe you're aligning with Pornhub.' First of all, you ever heard the saying, 'You can't beat 'em, join 'em'? Let's be realistic about our approach in doing the right thing — not taking away freedoms and fun from adults, but by protecting children with holistic solutions.
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Host8:48
Exactly. So let's bring Solomon Friedman in. His official title again is what — he's the VP of compliance. He's also a criminal justice attorney, so this man knows his stuff. He's been very involved.
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Co-Host9:02
Yeah, yeah. Elvis, want what you say?
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Host9:05
Sure. All right, let's bring Solomon in. Solomon, thanks for hanging with us and welcome to the program.
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Solomon Friedman9:09
Thank you so much for having me. It's a real pleasure to be here.
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Host9:13
Well, Kim just laid it out there, and Solomon, I hope that the actions being taken by your company at Pornhub will put the pressure on these tech giants to do the same and combat these predators out there looking for children and pornography. Tell us what you're doing at Pornhub and why.
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Solomon Friedman9:33
Sure. So just over a year ago, in March of 2023, my partners and I acquired a company called MindGeek, which owns and operates Pornhub. So we own Pornhub and many of your other favorite platforms. And we approached this with really a singular goal in mind — and that is recognizing, I think Kim said it very eloquently, adult entertainment isn't going anywhere. It's legal, it's constitutionally protected. But it needs to be done safely, and it needs to be done not only safe within the bounds of the adult industry but really to lead by example for the broader internet. And what Pornhub and all the platforms that we own have in common is really a world-class trust and safety system. And that begins from the moment an individual applies to upload content, all the way through the end moderation process that ensures that every piece of content is content for which the individuals featured in it are of age and consent, and that that content meets some very strict guidelines. And this is obviously an enormous investment, and I'm happy to talk about that and unpack that. But trust and safety is really our priority. And I think people sort of get surprised when they hear that a company that owns and operates Pornhub has trust and safety at the heart of everything they do. When you look under the hood and you learn more about this, you realize that this is a fight that everybody has a part in — nobody can shirk their responsibility. And we really, from top to bottom, have done an enormous amount to make the internet a safer place. And I really hope that all of our — first of all, our competitors in the adult space copy us, but so do the tech giants in the mainstream space, because protecting children is really everybody's responsibility.
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Host11:22
Solomon Friedman with us — he's one of the owners of Pornhub. Kim, do you want to go for Solomon?
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Kim Kelly11:28
Yeah absolutely. So there's a lot to say here in terms of why this matters and the impact that this could have. I want Solomon to also talk about why it could be a profit-driven decision. And here's where I'm going with this: in order for us to hold other tech giants responsible and accountable — ultimately, because the internet was not around when the Constitution was written, it's not exactly regulated. Now let me be clear, I'm not asking for more federal government involvement in anything. However, there has to be some sort of safeguards. We have to incentivize these tech giants to do the right thing. Now, how do we do that realistically? If we make it profit-driven. Now hypothetically, if you knew, Dan, that Bing was first of all free of child exploitation, did not allow it, did not have it on its platform, and monitored and made sure every piece of content was safe — would you or would you not gravitate from Google to Bing? So we the people could vote with our dollars. We could actually incentivize these companies that are doing the right thing. That's a big part of where I'm going with this — not only working with Ethical Capital Partners and their platforms, but we could take this so much further. So Solomon, from your point of view, what aside from ethics incentivized you to do this, and how do you see this as something that's sustainable, not only for you but for other platforms?
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Solomon Friedman12:49
Well, I think number one, you know, we all want to live value-driven lives. So I think we've got to start there, right? I think the vast majority of Americans — I'm Canadian, I think we share a lot of the same core values, Western liberal democracies — that we want to protect the vulnerable, we want to take responsibility for our choices, we want to enable adults to express themselves freely as a matter of self-determination. So number one, you've got to lead with your values. But I agree with you completely. I've always had the view that there is no tension between safety and profitability. And in fact, nobody wants to support or engage with a platform that is harming individuals, that is promoting harm. I think that people want to gravitate towards products which are safe, which promote safety, which have trust and safety at the heart of everything they do. So when it comes to our platforms, we really start at the very beginning. First of all, and I invite any of your listeners to try this out — it is impossible to upload content to Pornhub or any of our other platforms until and unless your identity is verified. So it's not like YouTube or Reddit or Twitter or Facebook where anyone can just post, start an account, and start posting really whatever they want. Individuals' identity, their consent, their age has to be verified. We do this using both automated means — that is, AI means of verifying documentation being authentic — but also using a team of human moderators. And then if you send me your application, I'll get you on the team, but I've got to tell you there's a 90-day training period before you have any access to live content. You're tested for 90 days. We have staff that works in shifts 24/7. First of all, they're verifying age, identity, and consent of anyone applying to upload. So you can't just upload. And once that application is accepted, every single piece of content is first put through about a dozen automated engines that scan it against databases of known child sex abuse material. So we subscribe to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, the Internet Watch Foundation's list, Safer by Thorn, Google and YouTube have some tools — we subscribe to every database we possibly can to check, in an automated way, all submitted content against these databases. And then only then, if it passes those levels of approval, it's reviewed by a human — in its entirety, looking not just for the law. And this is really important in terms of how our company views our responsibility. I always say: complying with the law is like putting your pants on in the morning — you don't get a medal for it, that's basic-level stuff. It's important to us that we go above and beyond that, and that includes as well moderating for content that might be legal but we consider harmful and therefore will not allow on our platform. But that can only happen with human moderation. Now, Kim talked about the commercial side — is this expensive? Of course it's expensive. Our company — we're not a Google tech giant — and in the adult world we're pretty large. The company employs about 1,400 or 1,500 people; a full 20% of them work in trust and safety. So that's an enormous investment in people and resources. So when it comes to the uploader verification and the moderation, we take that responsibility very seriously. But it actually continues beyond that. We have a banned word list — banned words and terms — about 40,000 words right now in over 30 languages, that when an individual searches them or enters them as a proposed title or a search term, they receive a result showing no content, but also explaining that this work is prohibited. But for people searching for illegal material — we know that people will come to anywhere on the internet to search for illegal material — they're not going to find it on our site. But we actually have partnered with a number of organizations in the United States to try to direct people looking for illegal material to get the help that they need. We can't just stand back — I think, as a company with our reach — and say, 'Well, they're not going to find that material on our site, we say it's prohibited, and that's the end of that.' But we actually have partnered with these organizations to try to get people the help they need. And my view is: if one person takes advantage of that help and it saves one child from a lifetime of suffering, then that's reason enough to do it. But you really have to be serious about this. And we hope to lead by example, not just for the adult world, but for the broader social network world as well.
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Co-Host17:41
Solomon, I'm hopefully — you're a trendsetter here. Have you gotten any pushback from competitors, for example? Because you mentioned it, and I was talking with Kim about it — it's costly to do what you're doing, so it's not a money-maker. So what kind of pushback, or what are you hearing from your competitors?
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Solomon Friedman18:03
Yeah, so in January 2021 — that's two years before we acquired the company — they rolled out the verified uploader program for all content. In other words, nobody could upload content unless they were a verified uploader with their age, identity, and consent. The rest of the — just call it what it is — the rest of the porn world said, 'You guys are dumb. Nobody is going to jump through all those hoops in order to upload content. Nobody's going to trust you with their ID.' And over 600,000 verified uploaders later and 130 million daily active users later, my view is: the free market has voted. And they have come out overwhelmingly in favor of these types of measures. One of the things that I'm really proud of — and I know it's like a little joke, nobody goes to Pornhub to read the articles — but you should spend some time reading some of the articles, including our twice-yearly transparency report, where we set out in detail everything that I'm talking about today. And some people kind of scratch their head and say, 'You're giving away your secret sauce? You're telling people all the measures you employ, all the software you use, all the metrics that guide your removal of content?' And I say yes. I want it to be copied by our competition. I want every adult platform to copy us and to do exactly what we're doing. And you know, if we do that, the internet is going to be a safer place. So frankly, I don't look at this as a competitive issue. And if our competitors are skeptical about it, my view is the results speak for themselves. We all have a responsibility to keep the internet safe. It's not a matter of competition or commercial advantage.
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Co-Host19:40
Solomon, I just wish you had passion for what you're doing, you know. Do you mind holding for just a minute, Solomon? We've got a hard break to get to, and we'll come right back with you. Do you mind?
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Solomon Friedman19:49
I'd love to stick around. Thank you.
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Host19:52
Solomon Friedman with us — one of the owners of Pornhub. We're talking about the steps Pornhub has taken to try to make it safe as far as children and how we've seen kids in this country exploited for sex by adults. The honor system is not going to work, it's not going to work is it? And some of these companies will go, 'Are you 18? Enter.' If that is the honor system — well, come on. But Pornhub's taking some drastic steps to stop this, and that's what we're talking about today. Solomon Friedman will be with us when we return. It is 4:51, it's 82 degrees in Midtown. It's Wednesday, it's July 17th. Is it just me or is this month flying by?
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Co-Host20:40
It's flying by, this year is too, to be honest.
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Host20:43
Why do we start having fun, y'all? And it really will go by fast. We'll be right back. Good show and it's really interesting. Man, I love smart people. And I love having you here too Elvis. Having Kim Kelly here — Kim, it is so much fun to have you here. You work so hard to do everything you can to stop this embarrassing problem that our country is suffering from, and that's child porn, that's human trafficking and sex trafficking with our children. And it's no one's platform in a presidential election year, no one's platform whatsoever, and that ought to get people's attention. Kim's website is Digital Defenders United.org. Check that out.
Solomon Friedman is here, one of the owners of Pornhub. Solomon, thanks for holding over. We really appreciate you spending some time with us. I want to read you a text — someone coming on the program — that they write on the advance. We have a medical text line — you can text us folks if you have a question, it's 731-883-9873. This one reads: 'While listening, I've researched the lawsuits against Pornhub. If you guys are doing nothing wrong, then why do you continue paying people off?' Solomon, what do you say to that?
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Solomon Friedman22:11
Yeah, it's a great question. So first of all, there were lawsuits which were filed before Ethical Capital Partners acquired the company. This is about conduct and trust and safety practices that existed years before we bought the company. And to echo what Kim said, just to add to it: the U.S. Department of Justice conducted an investigation — it was actually a 30-month investigation — in which they concluded — this is the DOJ, the U.S. Attorney's Office — concluded that they did not find evidence that the company had committed the federal offenses of sex trafficking or the dissemination of child sex abuse material. That doesn't mean people can't make allegations and lawsuits — of course they can. What's really important is that we get just outcomes for those. But those are allegations. The federal government has investigated and obviously have released what I just said. Now, when it comes to, you know, it's an interesting word — 'paying people off' — when a company or any person does wrong, whether intentional or otherwise, individuals are entitled to compensation. There's nothing wrong with that. This is how you learn from mistakes, this is how you get better. I think there are really two ways to look at this: either you can put your head in the sand and decide to kick and scream and say 'PornHub is bad and porn is bad and I hate the whole industry,' or you can say: are you serious about learning from the challenges? Because I can tell you this — the criminals are serious about improving their ways of exploiting not just adult platforms but the internet as a whole. And I believe that we have to learn from past challenges. So I'm actually very proud of the work that the company has done. And when any company sees an opportunity to improve or a reason to compensate or to right wrongs, that's what you have to do. That's what a responsible company does. And there's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of in that regard.
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Host24:04
Solomon Friedman joining us, one of the owners of Pornhub. Solomon, do you have kids? Do you have a family?
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Solomon Friedman24:12
I do. I've got three teenagers.
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Host24:18
Well then it's — it's personal, right?
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Solomon Friedman24:20
Well, 100%. I mean, you know, I don't think you need to have kids to want to protect young people. But certainly for those parents out there, protecting young people is essential to us. One of the things that I'm really proud of — change that occurred after we acquired the company — is that now anytime somebody goes to Pornhub or any one of our adult platforms for the first time, the first thing they see before any explicit content is a link to parental controls. I'm a big believer that parents are an essential part of the solution when it comes to protecting young people from accessing adult material. And I want to be very clear: we as a platform, of course, we have a zero-tolerance policy for child sex abuse material. But we also do not want young people accessing our platforms. Pornography is adult entertainment — it's for adults. It's not sex ed, it's not for young people in any way, shape, or form. So for that reason, it was important to us that before seeing any explicit material, parents have the tools at their fingertips. And I invite your listeners to try that out and to take a look at the parental controls. You can see we post a list of resources — you can block it at the browser level, you can block it at the router level, the internet service provider level. It's very weird, by the way, for a website to provide a list of how to block us, because we want parents to have that control. That's part of being a responsible platform on the internet.
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Co-Host25:47
Well, you don't have to answer this right now, but Elvis said he was doing some research with that and he can't figure out how to unblock it. He's pretty upset about that. But there's one more question here on our advance text line. Actually, I don't want to ask you before the news hits. This one comes in for you, Solomon, and they write: 'To date, how many children have you guys helped? It's one thing to talk about the problem, but that solves nothing.' What do you say to that?
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Solomon Friedman26:12
Yeah, that's a great question. So the deterrence messaging that I referenced before — that is, providing resources to individuals who are searching for illegal content, even though they won't find the content on our platform — we actually provided all of the data related to that project to the University of Tasmania. It was important for us to be open and transparent about it. They published a full report. You can find it on the Internet Watch Foundation's website — just search for 'Retink Chat.' That's what the project is called. And it records thousands of interactions — this is the deterrent chatbot — and then almost 100 people found real-world help. So that's on the deterrence side. It comes to — yeah, it's important to really provide this data so, like I said, others can copy us. We also publish in our transparency report — once again, it's available on Pornhub.com in the Trust and Safety Center, please take a look at it — where we go through the amount of content that has been removed and reports made to law enforcement, specifically the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. Just this year, NCMEC — that's the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children — they released their annual report, and when I read it, it didn't surprise me, but it surprises many, many people. So they received from Meta over 20 million reports of suspected child sex abuse material — that is, people attempting or actually uploading. Reports from Pornhub and its related platforms — the number of reports that it got was about 2,500. And the reason for that, people ask, 'How's that possible, that there are so few reports made?' And by the way, that's not material that made it on the internet — that's material that was submitted to us for review, and then we turn it over to NCMEC — suspected exploitative material. And I say: when you get the name and ID of every single uploader, verified for real — it takes a special kind of stupid to, after giving your real government ID and verifying your identity, to try to submit illegal content. Yeah, they're off to the next platform. Yes, absolutely. And at the same time, NCMEC also reported of how much material — illegal material — they found themselves, not reported to them, but they found. So for Meta, it was a couple of hundred images or videos. For Pornhub's platforms in 2023, it was zero. That's incredible — not two, but zero. So the proof is in the pudding. You know, when one of the — the last person who messaged asked about saving children and talk is cheap — I agree, talk is cheap — but the proof is in the pudding. NCMEC says in 2023 we found zero on the platform, and zero is our goal year after year, and should be the goal of every website and platform online.
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Host29:12
Way to go! That is fantastic. Solomon Friedman, one of the owners of Pornhub, with us. Solomon, we've got news about the fire. Do you mind holding over, doing one more segment? Do you have time?
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Solomon Friedman29:25
I'd love to. It's been a real pleasure speaking with you.
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Host29:26
Well, the pleasure is all ours. And I know Elvis has questions for you when we come back. Elvis, you'll be first up for Solomon Friedman, one of the owners of Pornhub, talking about what Pornhub is doing — and it's costly, but it's worth it — to protect kids online from these predators.
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Kim Kelly29:44
Absolutely. I want to add to what Solomon said, and the question of 'How many children have you helped?' Pornhub is not a nonprofit. They're not pretending to dedicate their lives to helping children. But I do own and have worked with various nonprofits, and I want to put this out there: we've asked various religious and various types of nonprofits and groups and churches and people to help support our work. Guess who has? Pornhub. Pornhub has made a donation to not only rescue and rehabilitate child trafficking survivors — so as far as putting their money where their mouth is, I can personally testify that not only are they doing their part to safeguard their platforms, which is huge, which no one's asking them or forcing them to do, but they are actually collaborating with various nonprofits, activist groups to go above and beyond, not only in awareness and activism but actually supporting the causes.
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Host30:30
Yeah, this is very encouraging, but it's also sad that it's not a politician with a platform to combat this — it's Pornhub doing it. And I'm really proud of what you're doing, what you guys are doing. I know you're very serious about it. I hear the passion. Can you hear the passion in his voice, Elvis?
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Co-Host30:51
Absolutely. Sounds like a serious man to me. And he's right about that, because you get these pedophiles — and you're asking for their name, their government ID — they're out of there. So if these tech giants don't step up and do what Pornhub is doing, well, they'll just go right on to the next one.
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Kim Kelly31:12
It also means they are intentionally profiting off the abuse of children if they choose not to implement these solutions. That's where we're going with this.
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Co-Host31:19
There you go. There's a reason why that — on suicide watch — Epstein and all those coincidences where the cameras went out at the same time, two guards on suicide watch went to smoke a cigarette together, and he killed himself at the same time. Let's not pretend to solve this problem, let's actually solve this problem.
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Kim Kelly31:42
Let's do it.
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Host31:44
And Solomon will be with us when we come back. And it's been a real eye-opener hearing you talk today, so good on you, keep it up. And I hope you can get that message out to a broader audience. A couple of things I want to ask you though — we have a potential listening and viewing audience today, Solomon, of 8 billion people.
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Co-Host32:05
Incredible, just incredible.
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Host32:08
We do, okay, go right ahead. Hey, Solomon — is child pornography a problem that's unique to the United States, or is it everywhere?
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Solomon Friedman32:15
Yeah, so I don't mean to be a stickler for terminology, but I hate the phrase 'child pornography.' You know, in general, what police and intelligence agencies are using these days is 'child sex abuse material.' And the reason for that is it makes it so clear that children should have nothing to do with pornography whatsoever. Pornography — call it expression, call it art, call it whatever you want — but kids can't consent, so they can't be involved in pornography. The question that you're asking about where it's prevalent: it is a global problem. And it's one of the reasons why we work with over 50 NGOs along with some leading law enforcement agencies around the world. Like anything internet-related, it's not confined to one geographic location. It is a global problem, and global problems require global solutions.
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Co-Host33:09
Hey, referring back to what you were talking about earlier — I was hearing some talk about how if other platforms would jump in and do the same thing you're doing, then the public would move toward them, hopefully, and financially influence the others to come along. So are y'all going to put out, or have you put out, a report card on the other platforms and who's doing what?
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Solomon Friedman33:33
Yeah, so remember — we're not an advocacy organization, we're not an NGO. We don't report on other platforms; we report on our own, thoroughly and transparently. In fact, we call it the transparency report — it goes through detail by detail every category of content that we block, how many users we banned, really in very granular detail. What I would recommend for your listeners is that they go check out NCMEC — the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. There's a clearinghouse for reports about child sex abuse, about internet child exploitation, and they publish a report every year. They publish a number of reports and they rank, by all sorts of categories, every social media platform that reports to them, as well as adult platforms. That's a really good place. There's all sorts of methods for encouragement — you can have, I speak as a parent, you got positive reinforcement and you got negative reinforcement. There are certain statistics you don't want associated with your brand. NCMEC in the United States, and then the Internet Watch Foundation, based out of the United Kingdom, publishes similar metrics for some European platforms. Really, really helpful numbers. I think that'll open the eyes of many in the public.
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Host34:49
Let me ask you — Gabriel, would Elvis — before you go again — tell me, I want to write this down — what's the name of that website you recommended to go to to check this out?
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Solomon Friedman35:00
Yes, so it's the website for the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. We call it NCMEC. And NCMEC is a non-governmental agency but really the clearinghouse for reports of child exploitation. So police report to them, they send reports out to police. That's MissingKids.org. And on that website you're going to see really fantastic resources for keeping young people safe. You'll also see a link to a program there called Take It Down. I'm really proud of that. Take It Down is a program where, let's say, a young person has been exploited, or has been convinced or coerced, or just made a bad decision and produced a nude image of themselves — took a photo or a selfie or a video — and they lose control of it. A bully gets it, an ex gets it, and they're threatening to disseminate it. So NCMEC — MissingKids.org — has a program where individuals can have a signature, it's called a hash, taken of that piece of content. And then our platform, along with some other social media platforms, we scan every single upload against that list — the Take It Down list — to ensure that it could never be uploaded to our platform. Just one of the initiatives that require working together with organizations like NCMEC.
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Host36:23
Solomon, what I'm about to ask you I think is a very important question, and I'm interested to hear your answer, because there are people that are all for the rights of the unborn, but once you're born, you're on your own. Were you invited to the RNC? Are you invited to the DNC to talk about this? And how hard is it for you to get airtime to talk about this? Because it's Pornhub — and Solomon is one of the owners — and they've taken extensive steps and put their money where their mouth is to combat — I don't want to say child porn because I agree with Kim and Solomon, what you're saying — what do you say Kim? Child exploitation, or CSAM — child sex abuse material. Is it tough for you to get airtime to talk about this?
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Solomon Friedman37:14
Yeah, that's a great question. So I'll talk first of all about the audiences where we've found them to be really, really receptive, and those are the professionals. So I've been invited to speak at a number of conferences of law enforcement and prosecutors. We're talking about hundreds of cops who devoted their life to eradicating child sex abuse material and internet child exploitation, along with the prosecutors that prosecute those offenses. I've spoken to those organizations, I've made presentations, I've offered our resources to them. Just to give you a — I'm a detailed guy, it comes with being a nerd — but one of the things that I told this group is: make sure if you get a report that somebody is trying to upload illegal material and you come to our platform with a request, make sure that you also request all of the identifying details that we hold about all of our uploaders, because we can give you this material, you just need to ask for it. We want law enforcement to know: ask for this material so we can give it to you to help in your investigation. So I'm finding a lot of receptiveness from law enforcement, prosecutors — really the pros who know what the problem is and know what the problem isn't. At the same time, I will speak to any group, governmental or non-governmental, that will have me. All I want to do is both share our experience, but I also want to listen. I approach this task with a lot of humility. I'm not the expert, be-all, end-all. I'm doing my very best in this role to learn and to assist the company in implementing best practices.
We want to learn, so we're partnering with Kim, who is both an expert by training and by lived experience. We recognize we don't have all the answers — we need experts to assist us. We also partnered with the Internet Watch Foundation in the UK and produced best practices for adult platforms in combating child sex abuse material. It can be difficult to get an invite — people see PornHub and their mind shuts off. But we're persistent. I'm a persistent guy, Ethical Partners is a persistent group, and we're knocking on as many doors as we can because this work is too important to be squandered. I will go anywhere I'm invited, whether religious, not religious, or ideologically opposed. I would speak to an anti-porn conference if invited. I'd say: look, you don't like porn, I disagree, so we disagree about that. But what we agree on is that children deserve protection. Let's talk about what we agree on, because we agree on far more than we disagree on, and let's get the work done.
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That's right, Solomon. In the day and time we live in, we've got people whose job is to point out the little subtle differences because we have almost everything in common. That's why the ruling class has done it since day one on planet Earth — you divide and you conquer. Solomon is with us, Solomon Friedman, one of the owners of PornHub. Elvis, go for it.
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Co-Host40:27
Hey Solomon, one last thing. Do you have a vision for the future when artificial intelligence inevitably starts replacing real people with computerized manufactured images? Where that's going to go and the problems it's going to cause?
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Solomon Friedman40:41
That's a great question. We're at the forefront of prohibiting deep fakes or generated content that appropriates someone else's image. You may recall the digital images of Taylor Swift that spread like wildfire over mainstream social media. Those images, if submitted to PornHub by an uploader, would not have passed even the most cursory review. The moderator would say: here's the image you submitted, are you Taylor Swift? No, I have your ID — that's not who you are. This goes no further. It's interesting when a porn company is at the leading edge of avoiding digital exploitation. Going further, our platform treats digitally created child sex abuse material like real child sex abuse material — we have an equal zero tolerance policy. It doesn't matter if it's an image of an actual young person, someone role-playing as a young person, or a digitally created image — zero tolerance. That is child sex abuse material, entirely banned. We report it to NCMEC if someone attempts to upload it. Policy must keep pace with technology. The trouble is so many lawmakers and policymakers don't have a grasp on current technology and don't want to be educated. That's why a tech company like ours, with about 500 engineers, is solving these problems — detecting deep fakes, ensuring every piece of content is of a real person who has given authentic consent.
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Co-Host42:43
That was one of the things I found so interesting when Solomon walked me through the trust and safety protocols. One accusation about PornHub is about revenge porn — let's say you consent to a video with your boyfriend, then he's your ex and tries to post it everywhere and monetize it. They require a consent form for each model featured in each piece of content, even when their face isn't shown. There's also a form where you can ask for content to be taken down even if you previously provided consent. Can you talk more about that, Solomon?
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Solomon Friedman43:15
I'd love to. At the heart of our consent policy is that consent has to be ongoing. We don't believe someone should consent once and lose control of their image in perpetuity. On the bottom of every page on every platform is a link to the Content Removal Request Form. An individual fills out the form indicating firsthand knowledge that someone depicted in content has withdrawn or not provided consent. What we do then — and when people hear this from big tech companies they lose their minds — we take it down immediately, automatically, no human intervention required. I call it "take down first, ask questions later." We then investigate. If the person confirms their identity, we keep it down and provide resources to remove it from other platforms. But most importantly, we take it down immediately. That should be the gold standard. An individual can consent, make a totally voluntary adult decision, but then change their mind. I believe in freedom of expression and self-determination — a person has the right to make free choices about their body and image, but also the right to change their mind. At PornHub, they can withdraw consent from any content on our platforms.
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We've got just a couple more questions for Solomon. We had a full bank of phone calls but we're not taking any since Solomon is about out of time. We'll take calls after Solomon finishes. We do have some breaking news — President Joe Biden has been confirmed to have COVID-19 for a third time. Solomon, a couple more questions from our text line. This one reads: it seems like a publicist stunt to make something bad seem like something good — damage control, not a real solution. Solomon?
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Solomon Friedman45:38
I'm not a publicist. I have no training in PR — I'm one of the owners of the company. You can think porn is bad, that's fine. Adults make free decisions — don't make porn and don't consume it. But what we all agree on is how important it is to protect children. The Supreme Court has reaffirmed time and again that you can't ban porn even if you wanted to, which means it's here to stay. We have a decision: either call it bad, stigmatize the people involved, and allow evil to flourish — because that's what happens in the shadows — or say it's here to stay and support efforts to make it as safe as possible. Opening our eyes like grown-ups: porn isn't going anywhere. For as long as humans have existed, we've been drawing naughty pictures on cave walls. We have a responsibility to protect the most vulnerable, whether you love porn or hate it. I'm not offended by that question. I invite those who don't like porn — that's fine — but support the efforts to protect the vulnerable from exploitation online.
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Host47:19
One more question from the text line: how will this not drive pedophiles deeper underground and make them harder to find? Wouldn't it be better to use these platforms to set up pedophiles and traffickers to gain their information and find them? Go ahead, Solomon.
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Solomon Friedman47:38
By requiring uploader verification and getting real details of all uploaders, we promote accountability because we can provide all that data to law enforcement. We want spaces safe from exploitation. Regarding driving pedophiles underground — we know that when someone simply doesn't find what they're looking for, they'll go elsewhere, go to the dark web. That's why deterrence messaging is so important, and why we partner with mental health associations in the US, Canada, and virtually every jurisdiction where we operate — to get these people help, bring them out of the dark, and connect them to real-world resources. PornHub is not a mental health expert. We partner with organizations who are. It'd be easy to turn a blind eye — that's simply not good enough. My hope is that when you use Google, Facebook, or Instagram and search keywords related to illegal content, they copy our deterrence messaging strategy word for word. I'm presenting this around the world. I'll be in Australia in August presenting this program to a security and defense intelligence conference, because I want it copied. We need to stop these people in their tracks — that's the only way to keep kids safe.
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Host49:12
Way to go, Solomon, working hand in hand with law enforcement. Solomon, it's been a pleasure. Solomon Friedman is one of the owners of PornHub. If you're just joining us, you can listen to or watch the replay. Kim, I'll let you have the last word with Solomon.
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Kim Kelly49:34
They're doing a lot. There's one thing we've got to do to help in this cause, and that's to stop this ridiculous epidemic — sex trafficking, child trafficking, human trafficking, and in this case using kids, these pedophiles online. PornHub's doing a lot, spending a lot of money, and working with law enforcement. We need to grow up and be adults and have these conversations. It's not that hard to have an adult conversation. Who am I to give advice for parents, but it's been my experience with family members who share information with kids — not the details, but don't paint a picture that it's Disneyland and keep them in the dark. Talk with them about these very important topics, even if you think it's a difficult conversation.
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Kim, absolutely to your point, and I want to add to what Solomon said. With the premise that someone thinks porn is bad — cool story, it's not illegal, it's not going away. Here's the question: if we hypothetically got rid of PornHub or the biggest platforms willing to do the right thing, where would that demand go? Everything is supply and demand. You'll never destroy the demand. Where would it go? To the black market, in the shadows, like Solomon said. Would that be safer? Absolutely not. Why would we not work with the biggest player to make their platform safe and hold other platforms accountable? Mark Twain said, if you want to make something valuable, write across the sky in big letters: prohibition. It makes anything more valuable, increases demand and interest.
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Kim Kelly51:32
I also want to make something really clear. I actually did about a two-hour interview with Solomon Friedman and Sarah Bane from Ethical Capital Partners, owners of PornHub. You can look it up on YouTube — we unpacked a lot of how and why they do things. There's a lot of information out there, but many people aren't aware of all the trust and safety measures PornHub has implemented. I encourage you to do that research. Just because I'm not a consumer of porn, just because I don't have children, doesn't mean I can't look at this realistically. I am a survivor of child trafficking. I spent the first 20 years of what you could call a childhood suffering extreme abuse and exploitation. When people say "I don't like something, it's gross" — that's not solving the problem. While everybody's performative activism may sound nice, what are they actually doing to help victims and solve the problem? This morning I spoke with one of the heads of Crime Stoppers in Tennessee. He wasn't aware of what PornHub is doing but loved the concept. Those of us doing the real work aren't looking at this with political or religious bias — we're looking at it with a solutions-oriented approach. That involves big tech, cybersecurity experts, law enforcement, policymakers, legislators, activists, and survivors. The reason I founded Digital Defenders United is to bring together experts and implement holistic solutions. Child sex abuse material should not be a problem we're still dealing with in 2024. It's a solvable problem — therefore it's by design that big platforms aren't safeguarding. Let's hold them accountable and protect children.
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Host54:15
Well, Kim and Solomon, thank you so much for being with us today. Hope we talk again soon.
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Solomon Friedman54:21
I hope so too. Thank you so much for having me — it's been a real pleasure. Have a great afternoon.
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Host54:27
It's 5:39. Well, what'd you make of all that, Elvis?
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Co-Host54:36
Amazing. I learned so much in so little time. Glad to have you and glad to have Solomon too. Very interesting discussion. You never know what you're going to hear, but I'm glad I heard it.
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Kim Kelly54:50
I think a lot of people are surprised that people like us are willing to have this discussion. People like me — I guess I'm supposed to be against everybody doing things that are adult-worthy, right? If we have a solutions-oriented approach, we can actually solve these problems. That's the intent, and I hope people understand that. We've got to deal with things head-on. The only option we don't have is doing nothing. That's what's happening in many cases — this blissful ignorance, thinking we can close our eyes and ears and it'll go away. What's ironic is that a lot of people who've expressed concern — "I can't believe you're working with PornHub" — they're not understanding the protecting kids part. They say, "I was super addicted to porn, it was a big issue, so I hate it." I understand, and I am not and never will promote porn. I'm not promoting PornHub. I'm not trying to make them look pretty. I'm bringing in experts and people to collaborate with to see if there are gaps we can fill. But here's my point: someone who's so triggered by porn because it affected them, thinking we can just ignore it and it'll go away — how is that helping children? How is that helping with prevention and education?
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Host56:06
And by the way, are we also telling kids that if you put pictures of yourself on the internet or text explicit images to a friend, those are never going away? They exist forever on the internet. Are we teaching children the responsibility? I'm not saying it's all their responsibility — I'm saying, are we teaching them the ramifications of sexualization? You've got to educate them.
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Kim Kelly56:37
The average age right now — I was talking to a detective who's been in the field for over 27 years combating human trafficking — the average age is 11 for children that get trafficked. That means parents need to start having these conversations when kids are 8 or 9. If you're not willing to have these conversations with your child, someone on the internet will. You've got to educate them.
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Host57:04
People have got to realize these images are real people. We've created a disconnect from reality with images, but they're real people — this actually happened to somebody. If you saw it on the street, you'd be yelling, but on your computer, it's entertainment.
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Kim Kelly57:24
Absolutely. That's an excellent point.
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Host57:26
All right, let's get a phone call or two. I want to talk to people who have questions about PornHub, so stay with us if you're on hold. Elvis still has himself blocked — we'll troubleshoot. But I thought that was a great conversation with Solomon about the safety nets put in place to stop this — letting adults steal a child's life for their own sexual gratification. That is just up with which we will not part. It's bad enough what was done, but folks, it doesn't stop there. These victims take this with them their entire life — it robs so many children of their entire life. We've got to stop it. We'll be right back. That's 16 minutes past. Stand by for news, and be patient on those phone lines. My name is Dan Reeves, along with Elvis Rogers and Kim Kelly. Kim's website is digitaldefendersunited.org. Please visit that website. Let's take some phone calls.
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Caller58:41
How can you assure that corporation is not going to be like all other corporations that just lie to us and they're not just in the process of doing damage control?
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Kim Kelly58:52
Absolutely, let's unpack this question. I'm not here to make PornHub look pretty — I'm here to actually look into this issue and bring together experts to solve the problem. Beyond talking, I've had a full in-depth tour of the back end of the trust and safety protocols with another cybersecurity expert. I'm also bringing in people in law enforcement and other realms of expertise — intel, cybersecurity — to see if there are any gaps. Point one: they're not just talking about doing better, they've actually done better. They don't have child sex abuse material on their platform. Anybody can try to prove me wrong — I bet you $100. Point two: they've implemented a rigorous verification system for every piece of content before upload. They're not just talking about it — they've taken action. They're a porn company. What they've done is rid their platforms — plural — of child sex abuse content. I'm not sure there's another big tech platform that can say that.
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Caller1:00:07
How do we know they're in it for the right reasons? How do we not know they're just in it for damage control, financial gain, or notoriety?
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Kim Kelly1:00:19
I'll tell you one thing — it doesn't matter to me what the reason is if it's working. Again, we let them prove it with their actions. They're not saying "we want to rid our platforms of child abuse material" — they're saying "we have done it, and we are working to continue improving." They're working with third parties that will verify them — not to mention the DOJ's 30-month investigation, working with Crime Stoppers International, and more. This takes a team. It's not up to PornHub to solve the world's problems in internet exploitation, but they can absolutely ensure their platform is free of child sex abuse material. That goes beyond words — those are actions.
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Host1:01:06
It was great to hear Solomon talk about the cooperation with police departments. They work with a lot of law enforcement and conferences. What can we do to help spread your message?
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Kim Kelly1:01:21
My message is about protecting children and actionable, holistic solutions. Everything begins with awareness — we have to understand the problem. The problem is children suffering from exploitation, including trafficking. But maybe that's not tangible for the everyday parent. What is tangible is digital safety — that's why I've narrowed my focus. I'm a child trafficking survivor, and this is near and dear to my heart. But let's be honest — even those willing to be aware can't do much about trafficking, and it's overwhelming. What you can do is protect your children at home. Make sure your children don't have unlimited, unsupervised access to the internet. I'm not saying raise them under a rock — there are positives about technology, but also a lot of inappropriate content and predation. I've been undercover. I've seen what children see on the internet, and it is horrendous.
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Host1:02:35
I think you need to say a bit about when you were posing as a 14-year-old girl.
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Kim Kelly1:02:40
12 years old, 13 years old. All I'm doing is working with law enforcement in these operations. I'm pretending to be a child on the internet — no entrapment, no solicitation, no flirting. I set up a profile — not on a dark web app or dating app, but a social media meetup app that all your children are downloading from the App Store. I set up a profile with a baby-faced child's look. I've been 12 and 13 in various operations. I set up a profile, that's it. I don't send friend requests, message requests, nothing. And within 10 to 30 seconds, every single time, in every state, it starts pouring — predators into my direct messages or friend requests. I filmed this because it's unbelievable. These messages come with everything from "hey baby, you're so cute, do you have a boyfriend?" to "what would you do for $500?" to the most insanely aggressive, violent things that would not be appropriate for a consensual adult relationship. I'm a seasoned, hardened 34-year-old woman — it's not about my emotions. I'm letting you know it is so disgusting it takes me days to mentally and spiritually detox. Your children cannot unsee this. In the two and a half to three days I spend doing these undercover operations, I probably chat with 300 to 400 predators and see around 200 images of adult male genitalia. I have a profile picture that looks like a 12-year-old child. I'm telling them my age in writing — I'm 12 years old, turning 13 next week. They know my age and they're expressing the most disgusting, vulgar intent. Parents, your children may not be doing anything wrong, nothing to get attention, but these predators are strategic and they are hunting these children. I'm the most chill person you'll ever meet — I am not exaggerating. I refuse to let my niece grow up in that world. This is a solvable problem. Absolutely not something we should tolerate.
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Host1:05:58
Let's get to the phone lines.
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Caller1:06:00
It's hard to believe those parents did not know that those 13 and 14-year-old girls were flying to Epstein Island.
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Host1:06:03
That's difficult for me to believe as well. Some of the youngest victims were 10 years old on record. The media wants to paint it like they were 14-year-old girls — some were as young as 10. But to your point, welcome caller.
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Kim Kelly1:06:19
It's a grooming process. The parents not only have a massive responsibility, they have a massive role in prevention. There are a lot of parents who don't want to have the birds and the bees talk because their kid is "only 12." The average age a child is trafficked, according to the FBI, is around 11 years old. You need to start having these conversations when children are very young, especially if you think handing them a device with access to all the world's information is somehow safe. That's like handing them a loaded weapon. Times have changed — what world do we think is safe? What world do we think we can give them unlimited unsupervised access? There's a lot of software and technology — we're creating solutions that are even more robust. There are apps that help you monitor your child's internet activity. There's one called Bark — B-A-R-K — I'm not affiliated, but I recommend it to parents because it helps you monitor what your child is doing on their devices.
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Co-Host1:07:28
I would imagine there are also cases where people are grooming the parents to some extent — setting up confidentiality and trust with the parent to gain confidence.
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Kim Kelly1:07:47
Absolutely. Predators are very strategic. Did you know the majority of child trafficking and child abuse cases involve people the child knows — friends and family members the child is supposed to trust? Just because someone attends the same church as you does not mean they're safe for your children. Just because they're your neighbor or a happy babysitter doesn't mean they're safe. If you're a parent, use some logic: why would that grown-up want my kid to come spend the night at their house?
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Co-Host1:08:24
Look at what Pete Hill did. He served 14 years in prison for trying to kidnap a woman. When he got out, he got on the computer a couple years back and thought he was talking to a 13-year-old girl in Arkansas. He went to meet her and they were setting him up because he was trying to mess around with girls on the computer. I know that case very well. And there was a missing 14-year-old girl from Milan who's been missing since the late '80s — Casey McDaniels. A beautiful girl, about 12 or 13 years old. She was friends with my sister. Did they charge Pete for that finally? I think they charged him. I think he confessed. But there are several people, Dan, who say they don't believe he did that particular case.
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Host1:09:29
Well, I'm wondering when that's coming up. Austin, I'll check on that. But the point is, I know where Austin's going with this — a leopard doesn't change its spots. If you're a pedophile, there's not much rehabilitation. It's a mental illness beyond repair. It's also the most weak, pathetic, cowardly thing any human can do — to prey on someone vulnerable, especially a child.
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Kim Kelly1:10:20
Absolutely. People have to realize, when we're talking about digital safety, the concept of "stranger danger" or the unmarked white van — that's no longer just an in-person concern. The predators have direct access to your children on their devices. Even though your child is upstairs in their bedroom where you think they're safe, predators often have direct access. There have been children who were sex trafficked and came home to their parents for dinner while still texting with their trafficker. The digital realm makes it so much more accessible. Children are not equipped for this type of predation. Technology is evolving so rapidly — we need to be proactive, stay ahead, and educate our children, especially if you think it's wise to give them access to the internet.
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Host1:11:12
Kim Kelly, enjoyed the show today — it was a very important show. I learned a lot. Elvis, did you learn anything? I sure did. I'm very impressed with you, Kim. Good work. DigitalDefendersUnited.org. And Kim, I want to ask you one more time: what can we do to help you fight this problem with sex trafficking and human trafficking?
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Kim Kelly1:11:33
I appreciate that. We're going to be putting out a lot more resources and solutions — not only technological solutions that parents and families can implement, but we're going to be holding big tech platforms accountable. I mean that for real. You can follow the journey, share, donate — we're a nonprofit, just getting started. But I've been working in this space for a long time and I've seen what needs to be done. I have a systems-oriented mindset and a do-or-die spirit. I'm willing to talk to policymakers, legislators, law enforcement — anyone who needs to come together to solve this. Right now, what you can do is protect your children at home, especially in their digital world. If you don't know what they're doing on their devices, take the time to check. Make it your business — you are the parent, you have that responsibility. Please monitor. Don't allow unlimited unsupervised access. Learn more at the website, contact us, ask questions, send hate mail — tell me what you think. But I encourage a solutions-oriented approach. It's not about opinions — let's stick to solutions.
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Host1:12:48
Kim, I assume predators can actually find IP addresses and find out where these kids are?
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Kim Kelly1:12:54
Oh absolutely. A lot of these apps have geolocation features, facial recognition, live streaming. On Snapchat and different apps, you can put your location — kids think it's cool to see who's near them. Just realize: your kid may be innocent. I'm going with the premise that they are absolutely not aware of what they're endangering themselves by doing on the internet. Let's keep kids' innocence. Let's take the responsibility to be their protectors and implement safeguards and preventative measures to help them avoid years of healing and trauma.
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Host1:13:29
We had so many phone calls — it went crazy. Thank you for that, folks. We appreciate all the interaction and the type of adult conversation we had today on a very serious subject. I think we all learned a lot today, and I hope you're back soon.
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Kim Kelly1:13:52
Thank you, I definitely hope so as well. I appreciate having this dialogue with people who are not only open-minded enough to get it but who understand the intent behind it. Yes, we can talk about adult things — we're all adults. And yes, we can all agree children deserve protection. There's a lot of steps we need to take as a society to actually solve that problem. The good news in the digital space — we the people can actually do something about that, not only from our homes but from changing the dynamics children experience in this digital world. I'm excited to not only solve this problem in our lifetime but to impact those things for generations to come.
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Host1:14:27
I applaud what you're doing — great job. Website again, folks: DigitalDefendersUnited.org. Kim, thank you so much for being here today. We had a blast with you, and we learned a lot. Didn't we, Elvis?
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Co-Host1:14:43
Sure did. I liked it a lot. That's something — folks, do all you can not to lose your capacity to learn and your desire to learn, no matter what age we are.
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Kim Kelly1:14:56
Absolutely. Work together for solutions. I really appreciate you having me again, Dan. It's always a pleasure. I appreciate this platform and being able to share this message with people who have an open mind and want to work together for solutions.
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Host1:15:08
It's great to see you. So glad you came to town. It was a very important show today. And thanks to Solomon Friedman, one of the owners of PornHub, for coming in, taking tough questions, sharing, and putting pressure on other big tech giants to do something to protect our kids from sexual predators.
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Kim Kelly1:15:34
Absolutely. I very much want people to look into that more. A lot of this information is public — a lot of the research you can do on your own. Not only the interviews Solomon has done, but the DOJ investigation — there's a lot of things people can look into and verify. I highly encourage them to do so.