Jason Kingsley18:52
I mean, tell you a quick story. I was there with my son, you know, when I was driving him, he was doing hockey, driving to underwater hockey on a Friday evening. And he was hungry, so I mean, there's nothing out, and we stopped at one of these small kiosks, you know, very basic store. And so I got him a pack of cookies, not the healthiest thing, but there was nothing else available. So I went to the cash point and took my phone, because back then I hardly carried any cash, it was all wireless. And I wanted to put my phone on the machine, and then there was a sign called 'no pay wave', your pay wave is the system for wireless contactless payment. And I said, oh, you know, I can't buy these cookies now for my son because I have no cash with me. And you know what this guy said? I'll just take it. Oh wow, he just handed me the cookies. I mean, it was a very simple store, like this guy probably didn't have much money, and he was giving me this cookie for, I don't know, five dollars. And that would never happen to me here in Europe. I mean, it really, the next day I went there and I gave him this money and I said thank you. But I was so touched by this gesture of giving me these cookies. And I thought, hey, why are we always so, our default mode here is distrust. You know, we don't trust people. There the default mode is trust first, they trust you, they give you something. And this is such a difference. And sometimes I really ask, why are we like that? You know, why don't we trust, why don't we give first before we receive?
I agree, and I do wonder if it's to do with the algorithms in the media and in the sort of the content we consume, the newspaper headlines equivalent. The other newspapers are kind of declining, but the idea of the newspaper is trying to sell copies, so they put an outrageous headline that asks a question, and even if you don't buy the newspaper, you read it and you think, oh no, something bad has happened. And that constant drip, drip, drip of people trying to get your attention with outrageous headlines, the click, the equivalence of clickbait before clickbait was a thing, just wears you down. It makes your brain think all of these things are happening all the time. I mean, looking at the research I was doing for my medieval stuff, looking through the court rolls and things, bad things that happened, it was a much more violent place, the medieval world. There wasn't a police force. You know, you go outside the major cities, there wasn't really a, there was sort of justice but it was small scale, like local magistrates. So somebody's pig ate your apples, and that was a big issue because you didn't have that much, there wasn't a supermarket to go to. And people laugh and it is small, but it's also big for people that live in that kind of agrarian place. But cesspits overflowing and people falling into wells and these things, but they mattered for those people. But the amount of communication they had was based on the speed of a horse. There was no broadcast headlines to say that somebody in this big city has been murdered, because you wouldn't care about it because it didn't matter, because that was 50 miles away and it's irrelevant. And by the time anybody told you, you'd say, so what? But there was much more violence happening, but there was no communication of that news to all of us. So it's almost this flow of information that the internet has given us which kind of makes us more sensitive and want to consume more negative stuff.