Leena Nair5:15
Those are tricks I still use today. I'm an absolute believer in affirmations. I'm constantly finding sponsors, finding mentors — because I didn't have role models in my immediate family — reaching out to people. I remember there was a newspaper article about the state topper, and I just reached out to him: 'Hey, how did you do this? What are your techniques?' He was kind and generous enough to spend time with me. Deep down, I felt that if you're committed and have deep intent, you will figure out a way, because somebody has figured out a way. And if you're humble enough to reach out, you'll figure it out. A huge love for learning, curiosity, being humble, always saying 'I don't know, I want to find out' — that's helped. I was always reaching out to people who inspired me.
Kumar has been a huge rock and anchor for me. My father was a big sponsor for my education. He said, 'I will educate you, but I can't promise you'll have a career, because I can't change the world around you. But I will send you on the promise that you will marry the man I choose for you before you turn 23.' I thought, 'Okay, whatever. Two years is a long time to come back and negotiate.' But he didn't forget. When I turned 23, he called and said, 'I have someone I want you to meet.' I said, 'You must be kidding me. I'm this newly flourishing MBA — I know better. I'm not doing this.' He insisted: 'A promise is a promise.' I met my husband, we had coffee, and I said yes in 30 minutes. We've been married for 30 years.
And I do think that learning to embrace failure was important for me early on — truly not dreading failure. When I feel disappointed, I cry. I cry easily, I go to the loo, I cry, I'm done. It's over. Fresh day, get out there, put on a good face. But failures have taught me so much more. And the beauty is, once you embrace failure, you can take risks. Once you've learned to embrace failure, you know you can dust yourself off, get up again. You get more audacious and more risk-taking.