Nimesh Patel9:24
For me, I was able to focus on my work because my parents took care of the business. Actually, I didn't need to spend as much time on it. I would go there from time to time, but it was rare. But I'll share this story with you because this was quite important for me. One time I went to help my parents with the business, and at that point they owned a shop. My father would do the restock of the shop once a week, so he would go to the cash and carry and come back with a car loaded up with all sorts of things to sell in the shop. There was a young kid who probably was at that point very early teens. I came in one day quite early, 7:00 in the morning, which is about the time they used to open up, and this kid was sat outside. It was cold and dark. We opened up the shop, and my father would typically go to the cash and carry at about 11:00. He went outside and spoke to the kid, then came back in. The kid was still sat there. I said, 'What? Why did you go outside?' He said, 'Oh, I know that kid. What he often does is he helps me unload the cash and carry from the car and bring it into the shop. It's really nice of him. He doesn't carry anything heavy, but he brings in stuff. He came once and asked if he could help, and I said sure. Afterwards, I said he could have a drink and some sweets or chocolate bar, whatever he wants from the shop. I like to encourage. But one time I made a mistake. Instead of going at 11:00, I had to go at 10:00. I unloaded everything myself, and then the kid showed up at 11:00. I had to say to him, 'I'm really sorry, I've done it,' but told him to take the sweets. The kid said, 'No, I haven't earned it, so I'm not going to take it. But what I'm going to do from now on is I'm going to turn up early.' So my dad had gone out and said, 'Don't worry, I'm not going till 11,' and the kid was like, 'No, I'm going to wait here.' I remember seeing him and thinking about the opportunities I'd had, and thinking to myself, this is what's really important in society. It's about how do you find kids like that? There's something innate in him. He's got a drive to want to do better, a real understanding of how he can contribute to his own success, and he's prepared to put that effort in even when it's uncomfortable, even when it's difficult, even when there perhaps isn't a role model for him to look up to. How do we support kids like that? How do we allow them to be the best version of themselves? How do we make sure that we don't lose that in the time that they grow up as other pressures come? That was one of the things I took away from the experience that my parents had in running that shop.