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Lee Smith
Senior Executive Vice President & Chief Financial Officer, FLAGSTAR FINANCIAL INC

Lee Smith : The Gray Area Podcast : Ep 144

🎥 Jul 01, 2023 📺 James Gray ⏱ 66m 👁 319 views
Lee Smith : is executive vice president and president of Mortgage at Flagstar Bank, a position he assumed in September 2020.
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About Lee Smith

Lee Smith, president of mortgage at Flagstar Bank, discussed the company's strategy for 2024 in a September 2024 interview. He stated that Flagstar, following its merger with New York Community Bank and acquisition of Signature Bank, has become a $110 billion bank with increased scale and capital. Smith described the company's approach as focusing on being a "one-stop shop" for the full mortgage lifecycle, including origination, servicing, subservicing, and warehouse lending. He noted that Flagstar has reduced its cost infrastructure by 65% from its 2021 peak to adapt to market conditions, and said the company aims to grow market share in a "safe and sound manner" rather than pursuing rapid expansion. Smith rejected the phrase "survive until 25," asserting that Flagstar has been in the mortgage industry for 35 years and will continue serving customers. In earlier appearances, Smith emphasized the importance of customer service, trust, and creative thinking in competing with larger banks. He highlighted Flagstar's diversified mortgage model, which includes a balance sheet and RMBS program, as an advantage in navigating market shifts from refinancing to purchase mortgages. Smith also discussed the company's growth in warehouse lending, reaching $10 billion in commitments in 2021, and its ability to fill gaps created by regulatory changes. He attributed successful leadership to accountability, teamwork, and avoiding ego, and stressed the value of empowering employees and maintaining work-life balance.

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Transcript (28 segments)
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Host0:07
Another podcast from the Michigan Institute of Athletics in Brighton, Michigan. It's going to be an awesome podcast today, I can tell through the athletic energy that I'm going to have a good one here with Lee. Right before we get into it, I want to shout out Vetlife. Vetlife is a 501(c)(3) non-profit company, it's a company of veterans for veterans. Every veteran faces difficulties when they transition from active duty back to civilian life, and Vetlife is there to ease that transition. If you want to reach out to Vetlife, you can do so through Instagram or Facebook or check out their website at vetlifetoday.org. So without further ado, I want to introduce Lee Smith. Lee, this is the way I start all my podcasts: I don't want to know about the man that you are today yet. I want you to take me all the way back. Where were you born and raised? What were you like as a young man? What were the things that were influential to you, ideals that you sought after, sports heroes, a father figure? What really started to shape you as a young man? Then let's start to unravel your story.
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Lee Smith1:05
Yeah, no, well first of all, thank you very much for having me. I'm excited to be on this podcast. Going all the way back, and you can probably tell from my accent I'm not from the US. I was born in Birmingham, England. I always talk about Peaky Blinders, so for those that are familiar with Peaky Blinders, that is set in Birmingham, England, which is about a hundred miles north of London. Very blue collar, so it has a lot of similarities with Detroit in terms of being a manufacturing hub. That's where the Industrial Revolution started. That's where I was born. My old man was a fireman, so raised in a very blue collar family. I love sports. I was a big soccer fan, or football fan. I'm a West Bromwich Albion fan for those that are wondering. Unfortunately we're in the Championship, which is below the Premier League, but we're trying to get back to the Premier League. I think growing up, the things that really influenced me, obviously my parents, and I've got a strong work ethic first and foremost. From the age of 11 I've always worked, and I'll be 49 later this year. I remember when I was 11 and I wanted something, my dad said, 'Look, if you want it, then you've got to work, you've got to earn money, and then you can buy it yourself.' So from age 11 I got a paper round four mornings a week. I'd get up at six o'clock, work the paper round, then go to school. As I got older, it moved from a paper round to stacking shelves in a supermarket when I was 16, 17, 18. Even when I was at university, I would come home during the holidays and work in a packing shed for a friend's dad and get paid two pounds fifty an hour. But that's what you did. You were introduced to that strong work ethic, and if you wanted something, you earned the money and then you could go and buy it. You didn't have to ask or rely on anybody else. I think that is a fundamental skill that I learned. The other thing I did, I've always been a big sports fan and played soccer when I was a kid, a teenager, and at university. This is the next lesson that I really learned a lot from. I remember when I first started playing football, soccer, I just loved the game, playing with my buddies. As I got into my middle teens and later teams, it was really more about, 'Oh, did I have a good game? Did I score a goal?' That's how you reflected on the game. I remember after I moved to university, I was at Loughborough University, which is in the East Midlands, a big sporting university. That's kind of another story. The only reason I wanted to go there wasn't because of the degree, which I'll get on to later and actually shaped where I am today. I just wanted to kick a ball around. I just wanted to play football. I was hoping Manchester United were going to sign me. I wanted to be David Beckham before David Beckham. Unfortunately I didn't have the talent of David Beckham, but I played at university. In my final year I was captain of the football team, and that's when I started to really appreciate teamwork and things not just being about you but about everybody else. What I mean by that is when you're the captain of a team, now it's about how did the team do? Did we win? Did we lose? How did we play as a team? It's not about you. It's how did the team do? The other thing that taught me, which was an invaluable life lesson, is that's how you started to figure out everyone has a different personality and everybody is motivated differently. I'll give you an example. I played in midfield and there was a guy next to me whose nickname was Banger, and he only responded if you were screaming at him every single minute of the game. Even if he was having a great game, you still had to be on him because if you weren't, his standards would drop. So you just stay on him, on him, on him. We had a kid who played on the wing, Irish kid Fergal, the most skillful player on the team, a real difference maker. But if you shouted at him, he would go into his shell, wouldn't want the ball, and you would lose him for the game. What I learned was you just needed to go and put your arm around him, tell him you love him, keep encouraging him. I would stop the other players from screaming even if they were frustrated with him. That's when I really started to appreciate how you manage people, the importance of teamwork, and the importance of knowing that everybody's different and everyone brings something different to the team. You need that. If you were all the same, it's not going to work. That was another big life experience for me.
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Host6:32
That's brilliant. I mean, you got to witness the complexity of leadership in that role, because there is no one size fits all. If you try to manage people that way, you will always create difficult cultures because people don't respond the same. I found the same thing through athletics. Learning to be a coach was a difficult skill because managing people is not something you're ready for until you're thrown in the situation. I don't care how many books you've read, how many workshops you've gone through, or things you've heard about leadership. It is so incredibly dynamic. But you alluded to it: if you had everybody that was the same, you would lack in several areas. You need this complexity of people to build something that's worthy. You need that guy that is so incredibly talented and all you got to do is have his back, encourage that man, and he's going to make magic happen with the ball. But then you need the other guy that is an intense figure that as long as he's fired up and believes it's go time, he's going to make plays happen. Sports introduces us to so many things that parallel with life. Do you remember your first great coach or your first inspirational leader, someone that changed your life because they brought greatness out of you? I think when you see things like that, when you have someone in life that brings greatness to the table, you go, 'Wow, there is a way that you can make people more than what they are.' Do you remember that?
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Lee Smith8:03
Yeah, and I will fast forward now to my work life. I can count on one hand the people that have really made a difference in my life from a career and work point of view. I'll go back to after college, university. I'm an accountant. I worked at Ernst & Young, and there was a partner there, William Tacon. He just believed in me. When I say he believed in me, he would read me out. There were many times when we were working on a project and I would do something, and he would call me into his office and we would go at it. But having played sports, I realized don't be defensive. Listen to the feedback. It's making you better. You've got to be humble and appreciate that here's a guy who's got 25 years on me, he's got the experience, and he's doing this to make me better. He's not trying to be awkward or funny or negative. He's trying to make me better. I learned a tremendous amount from William. He showed me skills that I still use today. Because he believed in me, it was he that made the move from the UK to the US, New York, happen. He went out of his way to speak with the highest people in the UK and the US at Ernst & Young to facilitate that. He has undoubtedly had a big influence on my life, and I respect what he did. He believed in me, and it's about believing in people, being a good mentor, and sharing your knowledge and experiences with them so they can be better. That's what William did.
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Host10:10
I think you made such a killer point right there where you said, 'I had to not get defensive and realize if this man's trying to bring the best out of me and his intent is to make me grow and prosper and flourish, then I should welcome this even though it might be uncomfortable in the temporary. It might be difficult. I might be like, I'm getting chewed out, but it's going to bring out the best of you.' That almost relates to that old quote of people don't care what you know until they know that you care. If you believed in him, if you believed in the fact that he had your best interest in mind and you didn't put up that defense, that's probably why you two created that trajectory of growth.
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Lee Smith10:53
No doubt about it. I mean, I knew he had my back. That's how I lead today. I have got my team's back, but that doesn't mean we can't challenge each other. That doesn't mean that if we have a disagreement, we can't get into a room and hash it out. But once we get out of that room, we're all on the same page. When we're together externally, we're united and we defend each other and we look after each other. As a leader today, my role is to make sure that my team have the tools and the platform to be as successful as they can possibly be. I want them to tell me what they need, and I will support them. I'll run through brick walls to make it happen for them.
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Host11:37
You're recreating that culture. That is what I do in here. In here, we have these fighters going after each other day in and day out trying to expose weakness. They're trying to find areas where there are flaws or where we should be stepping up more because the battles don't exist within our team. These battles are irrelevant. The battles exist outside of these walls. So if we can bring out the best in each other and find any chinks in the armor and repair them here, when it's time for battle, we're prepped. I remember one of my mentors, I had briefly told you about him before the podcast. The guy just turned 31, eight figure net worth, absolute tycoon. He wants to own a professional sports team one day, so he wants to buy a soccer team or something one day. I'm like, 'Hey, as long as I can be in the booth.' He talks about something he calls mining for conflict in his companies. He said, 'I go in and I get my people to search for conflict, not in a negative way, but if we looked at this with our imagination, with different perspectives, with all other viewpoints that we can conjure up, where are the areas of congestion or where are the areas of growth that are limited by our current belief system or structure?' He said that's been a game changer. They don't view conflict as a terrible thing. They view it as a process by which you discover gold. With that type of mindset, I can tell why you're in the position that you're in. You've embraced what you saw in athletics that yielded success, what you then saw from a mentor that brought the best out in you, and now you are applying those concepts to your company culture.
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Lee Smith13:10
Right. And that is how you unlock value. You look for those areas of conflict or areas other people will dismiss or won't want to look into because it is going to be aggravation. People don't want to deal with conflict typically. But if you can find that out and you're comfortable, that's where you unlock value. You've reminded me, bringing sport and business together, my favorite business book is Moneyball. What I love about that is it talks about thinking differently to achieve success. Everybody's familiar with the story. You've got the New York Yankees who had all the money in the world, would buy all the superstars, and you had the Oakland A's and Billy Beane whose payroll was a fraction of the Yankees. But they used data metrics to re-look how you assess a player and the game of baseball. They bought in players that fit that model and were very successful, very competitive. The reason I like that from a business point of view is anyone can apply Moneyball. We do it at Flagstar, which is where I work now, because we don't have the money that a JP Morgan Chase or a Wells or a Bank of America has. So we've got to think a little differently. But if you're prepared to think outside the box, think more creatively, you can still be competitive. If you're thinking creatively, that's how you move boundaries. You'll find that others ultimately will latch on to what you're doing, like they have with the Oakland A's. Now everybody, even the Yankees despite having all the money, they still use data. The other thing that proved is with a great team, it's not just putting the best athletes that you can buy together. If the chemistry doesn't work and you don't have the right leadership, it's going to fail, one thousand percent.
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Host15:16
There's so many metrics beyond just company evaluation that matter. At the end of the day, I'll relate it to an MMA world. For a long period, it wasn't the superstar gyms that were producing the world champions. American Top Team is funded by a billionaire. They have the nicest resources, the nicest facility, and yet they didn't have their first world champion for almost so long in existence. Yet Conor McGregor had a basically a garage in Dublin, Ireland. But you know what he had? Community, culture, positive leadership, people that believed in him from the bottom of their heart and told him that you can accomplish these things. So often people look at the titans of industry and they're like, 'Well, we're not them,' and they shackle themselves with that belief. It's like you can be. It's not just the metric of does our company produce more. What about what kind of lives does our company produce for the people that are part of it? What kind of relationship can we deliver to a customer because we are not confined by some of the chains that maybe the mega institutions are? They have to implement such strict processes because of the flat out volume they're going to take on, versus you guys can have more flexibility to say, 'Hey, how do we take the best of what they do but also the best of what we can create and really bring it together into one entity?' I feel like if you get everyone on board with that type of mentality, you're almost thankful that you don't have a lot of the chains that the mega, mega people play with.
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Lee Smith16:50
Yeah, there's no doubt about it. I think sometimes big organizations can be constrained because they're too rigid. There's too much protocol, too much process, red tape and bureaucracy everywhere. We always say, you talk about the customer, we always say make the customer experience your point of difference. Go the extra mile and do whatever you need to do to make the customer happy because if the customer has a good experience, they're going to keep coming back to you. It's like you go to a restaurant and you pay a premium but you have a great experience, you'll keep going back to that restaurant. The other thing that we preach and really believe is good customer experience isn't just to external customers. It's how we treat each other internally. If you treat each other with respect and you get an email, respond to it. It doesn't mean you have to have an answer, but just acknowledge, 'Hey, got your email, I'm looking at it, just give me two days, I'll be back to you.' So people know that you received it. It teaches that respect. If you've got that sort of level of service internally, it permeates externally and it starts to build trust. I'm a big believer it doesn't matter whether it's a personal relationship or a business relationship. If you don't have trust, you don't have anything. But if you've got the service and you've got the trust, now you're seen as a valued business advisor and people seek out your opinion. They want you to have a seat at the table, and it doesn't get more powerful than that. I think that is then combined with accountability. We believe in Jim Collins' Good to Great. That book says if you put the right people in the right seat on the bus, good things will happen. You don't have to micromanage good people because good people make good decisions. You give them the tools and the platform to be as successful as they can be. You empower them to make decisions. You give them the authority to make decisions. If you've got that great service, trust, good people who want to be accountable, you've got something very powerful.
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Host19:03
One thousand percent. Are you familiar with John Maxwell's The Five Levels of Leadership? You're speaking exactly to the points that he makes where it's like the best culture is almost not even so much that I can count on you, it's that I can count on me to do what I should do within this company and adhere to the company culture and really give my best. You should be able to count on you to do the same, and then you can learn to trust me to do what I am asking you to do as well. It's that two-way street. So often it's like, 'Yeah, well I would have done my job but this person didn't do that,' and that is the framework for failure. You need to look at how can you take personal responsibility and accountability and extreme ownership to say, 'I will make sure that I do this to the fullest of my capability. If there's any way that I can get to a next level and you want to provide that feedback, I'm on board because I'm on that game.' If you just subscribe to the same methodology, we're going to succeed here. On a football team, if you're killing it and you're working hard and you know damn well the person next to you has done the same things and they're giving 100%, you don't have to speak about the relationship of trust. It exists. The fighters train next to each other every single day. So when that one person's going to war, they have to count on them. They've witnessed the character that has been built through the hours in the lab. So it's effortless. The trust doesn't have to be preached. It just happens. That's what we're speaking of here.
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Lee Smith20:40
No doubt about it. Going back to Good to Great, level five leadership, level five leadership means no egos. If the team is successful, you give all the credit to the team. If it goes wrong, as the leader you take full and absolute responsibility. When something doesn't work out, the last thought you should have is, 'Oh, negatively, who are we going to blame?' The first thought should be, 'Okay, what could I do better as the leader to stop this from happening again? What am I going to change about what I did to ensure that we are successful going forward?' I think people are too quick in this day and age. If something doesn't quite work out, they want to point fingers. You shouldn't do that. You've got to take accountability yourself first and foremost and ask yourself before looking externally, 'What could I have done differently? Where could I be stronger, better?' That's where you start.
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Host21:40
Maybe it's as simple as, 'Could I have just identified this issue earlier on and prevented it?' Sometimes it's like you might look internally and say, 'Man, I really did what I was supposed to do.' But there's a saying in Jiu-Jitsu that I know you're going to appreciate: you either win or you learn. If you view things that way, it's like you just got handed this lead that can be transformed to gold if you just recognize, 'I either won and then it's great.' A lot of times winning leads to complacency, and winning can actually stop growth more than failure will. If you view it that way, 'I either win or I learn,' it might even just be identification. It might be able to say, 'You know what, I see a problem that is potentially starting to manifest. I'll just address it now because I know where it leads me if I don't.' I have a couple questions that I'd love to break down further. Let's talk about your ascent up the ladder a little bit. It sounds like you saw leadership in sports, you were a part of these cultures, there's so many parallels that are fitting in your life. You had a man that really went to bat for you and got you here to the United States. As you started to move up through the ranks, how did you really develop yourself into the leader that you are today? You embrace it now, I can tell. I can see it in your eyes when you're telling the story. You understand that leadership role, but that was built over time. Talk about that progression up through the ranks. Did you ever experience imposter syndrome where you started to get to a role where people feel like they're not really justified to have that role, they're not ready for it? How did you work through that? I think there's a lot of magic in that part of your story.
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Lee Smith23:19
Yeah, no problem at all. I think there's a couple of things. First of all, we touched on this earlier. I obviously made the move from the UK to the US, and then I'll talk about some other moves that happened during my career to get me to where I am today. A couple of things that I think are important: you never know who you're going to meet on any given day. One day you can meet someone out of the blue who can open doors and make things happen for you. That's what I'm going to describe in a minute. So be the best you can be every day because you never know who's paying attention and watching you and what they can make happen. Given where I am today, it isn't something that you wake up one morning as a kid and say, 'Oh, I'm going to be the president of mortgage of Flagstar.' It's a sequence of events that happens, but when you break it down, it's because along the way I've met just three or four people who have opened doors for me. In some situations, the people that I met I didn't know them that long. But be the best you can every day and bring your A game because you just never know who's watching. I was at Ernst & Young in the US now, in the restructuring group. I was 28. I moved to the US in 2002 from the UK. I was in the restructuring group because, just as a sidebar, I found when I was in audit it bored the hell out of me after six months. I remember thinking, 'I gotta get out of here.' With audit, you're always looking back. I didn't feel you're looking forward, you're not creating value. I had to stay in audit for three years to get the accounting qualification, so I sucked it up, did my three years, and then I moved to Ernst & Young's restructuring and insolvency area. Now you're dealing with sick companies. You're going into companies that are about to fail or have failed, and you've got to take them through a Chapter 11 type process and try to rehabilitate them. It's almost like being a doctor but for companies versus people. You learn a lot in those situations because you get parachuted into real problematic situations. Companies failing, people are going to lose their jobs, the company can't pay its bills, you've got creditors, vendors, people aren't very happy with you. These situations are stressful, and you've got to move quickly and decisively to figure them out. I learned a lot about dealing with high pressure situations. It's a bit like sport. You've got a big fight, that's a high pressure situation. You've got to be able to control your thoughts, be controlled mentally, know what your plan is, and stick to it even though things are going to come up that try to throw you off track. Unexpected things happen, but you've got to stay true to the game plan and have belief in what you're doing. That's something else I learned. Then when I was at Ernst & Young, I met a guy at a company called Zolfo Cooper who hired me. They were a restructuring and turnaround shop in New York. I moved over there and was having a great time at Zolfo Cooper. I was there about five years. Then I was working on a home builder in Florida, and a private equity fund tried to buy this home builder that I was working on. I remember the day they came in. I'm sat there as the advisor because I'm with Zolfo Cooper, and you've got the management team, and the private equity fund comes in. They had four or five hours and they just asked questions of the management team. I remember the management team couldn't answer many of the questions. I'm sat at the end of the table as the advisor, so I'm just answering the questions when there was silence because I was as familiar with the numbers, the model, what was going on. I didn't think very much of it. Then a couple of months later, that private equity fund called me and said, 'Can we talk to you?' We went and spoke to them, and they said, 'Look, we would like you to come and join us. We need someone with your skill sets internally here because we buy distressed companies, but we're deal guys. We need someone who can go in and work with the management to put the turnaround plan together before we sell it.' Coming back to what I was saying earlier, I had no idea that day in Florida that this meeting was going to have such an influence on my life. The private equity company was MatlinPatterson. They subsequently reached out, and I joined them as the operating partner in 2010. I was working for MatlinPatterson for a couple of years on all sorts of different companies all over the world. One was in Argentina, one they had in Texas, in Philadelphia, they had an airline company in Atlanta. I was loving it. Then they said in 2012, 'We need you to get involved in this bank that we owned called Flagstar, based in Michigan.' I said sure, and I started coming out to the bank early 2012. What was apparent very early on is the leadership at that point were not engaged with the organization. They weren't visible. There was really no strategy. There was nothing that was being communicated to the entire workforce. People really didn't know, 'What are we trying to accomplish here? What's the strategy? What's the game plan that people could get behind?' There were also a lot of problems with the regulators. I remember relaying this to the principals of MatlinPatterson. This was a big investment for those guys, and there was a little bit of denial. I think they would admit that. Then you fast forward to the summer of 2012, and the main regulator served the company with a consent order. That's when it was obvious that we've got to make some changes here. So we did. Towards the end of that summer, we changed the management team. We put an interim CEO in, and I was continuing to stay involved in the organization. I started working very closely with a guy called Sandro DiNello. He was in charge of all the bank branches of Flagstar. We subsequently made him the president, not the CEO, the president. While Sandro and I were working together for six or seven months at the end of 2012, beginning of 2013, it was obvious that Sandro should be the permanent CEO. In April of 2013, we told Sandro that he was going to be the permanent CEO. When we did, he said, 'Why don't you come on board as the CFO?' Because he and I had been working together very closely. So there is another person who I can absolutely count on one of my fingers who has been incredibly influential in where I am today. I was living in New York at the time with my girlfriend. We had a one-year-old, a baby that was just about to turn one. A thousand square foot apartment, plastic stuff everywhere, you couldn't move. We were looking to get out of the city. So now it was, 'Let's move to Michigan.' We moved to Michigan and took on the role as the CFO at the same time Sandro was CEO. The two of us then embarked on the turnaround of Flagstar. I cannot speak highly enough of Sandro. What I've learned from him, he's almost like a father figure to me. Again, someone who has just been inspirational, and not just to me. I think if you ask anybody at Flagstar, they would all speak incredibly highly of Sandro and how he treats people.
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Host32:32
How great is that to look at your leadership and feel that way? To look to your leadership and say, 'This is the type of man that I would follow in the battle, that I can count on to give a hundred percent, and he can count on me.' That is the dream. That's what you want in a company. You're going to have to work to get by. You spoke to something that I want to address that I think is so brilliant even though you said it so quickly and so simply, and so many people might just go right by it. Any moment of your life could be a dot that when you look back is a drastic change in your life. Steve Jobs has that famous quote where he says you can't connect the dots looking forward, you can only connect them looking backwards, and you just have to trust the dots will line up in your future. A part of that is being a hundred percent in the endeavors that you do and really showing up at your best and giving your best and showing the world the capabilities and potential you have as a human being. Because you don't know, when you're just sitting in that conference center and you're answering these questions, if you don't present the caliber of human being that you are, maybe that door never opens. Maybe you stay with that company. I think what you see with a lot of businesses, with people in general, is when they first set sail out on the ship towards the destination they want to arrive at, there's so much good energy and they're excited. The captain's taking charge, everyone knows their roles, and they're going. Then somewhere along the lines, you're not at the destination yet and the ship just starts to be at sea. You lose that enthusiasm and you lose that passion. The ship is floating, it's not sinking, so no one's panicking yet, but you've lost the drive that was supposed to propel you into the future. That drive is essential and it has to be filled again. It's like an empty gas tank. You have to make it a point to put gas back in the vehicle to keep it moving. What you told in your story is there's these plateau moments of your life where most people would have been satisfied enough. You're at a good job, you can pay the bills, you can get by, and they've hit a plateau. A lot of people set up their camp there and say, 'You know what, I've made it. This is where it's at.' The only difference with someone like you is you've continued to stay on point and you've found out that that plateau wasn't your peak. It was just a step on the journey. If more people would put energy into recognizing that every day could be a moment that drastically changes your life if you learn how to show up at your best, I think that's a game changer. I think you just told that in that part of your story.
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Lee Smith35:02
A couple of things that I would say. We talked about being your best every day because you never know who you're going to meet and what doors they can open for you. But when those opportunities arise, do not be afraid to take them. For example, when I was at Ernst & Young in the UK and they came to me and said, 'Hey, we need to develop closer links with Ernst & Young in the US from a restructuring point of view. We need someone to go over there for 18 months on a secondment. Do you want to do it?' It took me less than a second to say yes. Most people, the second they're presented with that, fear, doubt, change, they fear change 100%, and they shut down. They go, 'Let me talk to my wife or girlfriend, let me think about it,' and then they follow back up and say, 'Ah, no.' Where does that come from? Because that's not normally the reaction.
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Host36:00
Yeah, where does that come from?
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Lee Smith36:07
I think it probably comes from being inquisitive. I want to learn more. I want to push myself. I've always been fascinated with traveling. I've been fortunate enough to have done a lot of traveling. My natural reaction is always my first reaction is to say yes, not no. It's not to look for excuses. It's to look for reasons to be able to do it. I think it's the same with any simple job offering because it might be in another part of the country. People can always look for excuses to say, 'Oh, I don't want to do that because it's going to affect my routine, let me check with my boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, family.' You can always find excuses not to do something. But once you turn something down, that opportunity is lost forever. If you take that opportunity, you have no idea how it's going to shape the rest of your life and other people that you're then going to meet as a result of it. It's a little bit like fate. I would advise people when something is presented to you, take it. Because even if you go somewhere and you don't like it, the worst case you can always go back. But once you say no to something, that door is closed forever.
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Host37:29
One thousand percent. Everyone wants to think of everything they could lose or what might be different, but they don't think about what they could gain or the beautiful adventure that it could be. There's a children's book, almost written to be a children's book, called Who Moved My Cheese? It is the quintessential example of that ideology. It's simply you may have a little bit of cheese and you can get by right now and things are fine and you're comfortable. Who knows what's out there in the abyss? But if you choose to live that way, you're going to limit yourself to a level that you can't even comprehend. I have this quote that's haunted me since I was a young man: 'The only hell in life is meeting the person you could have become.' That quote has chased me. Most people's fears stand in front of them and they think, 'I can't do this because of that.' My fear is chasing me every day saying, 'What if you are a fraction of the man that you should have been in this life? What if this life had more adventure and more wonderful things than you could ever imagine and you never sought to achieve them because you let the fear of what if this changes stop you?' You just gotta realize that life really can be beautiful even if it's not right now, and it can be more abundant. But you have to invest in yourself. You have to appreciate the people that are around you that can help you. You have to cherish good relationships. You have to know right from wrong, good versus evil. You have to know these things. If you don't have a foundation, how are you going to stand on anything? You won't even have a road map. If you don't have a road map to get to where you're going, you're just going to wander. I feel like the reason these dialogues are so powerful is this is common. This is what successful people will tell you. The information is not what is lacking to change people's lives. It's the fear confrontation. It's making a decision. I want to dig a little bit deeper into yes, you have a sense of adventure, yes all of these things, but where does the confidence come from? Was it that you were gifted in athletics growing up? Were you popular? Was it your family unit that structured you to know that, 'Look, I've been working hard since I was 11 years old. I had a paper route. I did this. I did that. Why can't I be the guy that does this?' By the way, I ran a paper route when I was a young kid, and then I went to stocking shelves after that. While you were telling me that part of your story, I'm going, 'Okay, that's crazy. We have the same thing.' I'm a sports nut. So where do you think it was that gave you that foundation to be the man that takes his sword and shield and no matter what's in front of you says, 'I'm gonna go get this done'?
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Lee Smith40:21
Yeah, I think it goes back to my family, really. They just taught me real core values. Be respectful. Be the best you possibly can be. Don't do things half-heartedly. Be kind. Always do the right thing. Something I always say, because people will say, 'Oh, how'd you sleep at night with all this going on?' I sleep very well at night because I know at the end of each day I've done the right thing. I've been the best I can possibly be, and I've given it my all. I've got a great team, and I'm doing everything I can to support the team. If you do that, you can sleep well at night. People respond to that. If you just do good and want to be good and you're kind and respectful and you appreciate others, good things are going to happen. That is the foundation of it. I wouldn't say the confidence is really more experiences through life. Being in sporting situations where the chips are against you, being in business situations where you get parachuted into a company that's failing and underperforming, you've got to move quickly. You actually get to a point where you're very comfortable dealing with whatever the situation is. It's almost like, 'Okay, we got this. This is what we need to do. This is how we're going to divide and conquer. We're going to put a plan together. We're going to do this, we're going to do that.' It's not so much confidence. It's more you just feel confident that we're going to handle this situation. It doesn't matter what you throw at us, throw at me, we're going to be able to deal with it and handle it. Don't sweat the small stuff. If you're prepared and thoughtful and you've got a great team around you, you'll be able to accomplish anything.
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It honestly makes sense. You're not so attached to the result. You're only attached to the work that you're gonna do. You're like, 'I'm gonna give a hundred percent and I'm going to try to give the best solution possible, but at the end of the day, that happens in fighting. All you can control is to show up at your best. If there's a man that's just simply better than you, it gives you a blueprint that you get to go back and it's win or learn. The times that will break your heart are when you did not give 100%. It is not your losses. It is the times where you were a lesser version of what you know you should have been. That's what haunts you. I'm fascinated by the way that you described it. I can almost feel your passion through the microphone when you said, 'I got to go into a company and basically diagnose the issues.' You got to be almost like an investigative journalist trying to figure out where did this thing go off the rails, what went wrong. In a culture where entrepreneurship is very extreme, it's not really the foundation of what we teach children in school. If you're going to be an entrepreneur in America, good luck. You are going to have so much adversity and stress and tragedy and heartbreak. But if you can figure it out, you may live one of the most beautiful lives out there because you've created something. When you're looking at companies from this higher perspective without being emotionally involved in the process, where do you think the most common failures take place for people that are trying to run these businesses and projects? Generally there is a leadership, there is a culture, there are these things. From your point of view, what is it that separates a Flagstar that is now crushing it, putting your company in order, you're doing well, versus all these businesses that you're looking at that at one point in time probably had passion, probably had good leadership, probably had all these things that we might speak of? Why did you see so many of these companies failing? Or is there not really a common theme?
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Lee Smith44:30
It can be different things in terms of macro. You can always have macro events that create issues. But if you're looking for a common theme around culture, then yes, there is. I think what you have seen most often is leadership with too much ego. They think that they walk on water. They don't operate as a team. They don't listen to their team. They just push down. When I think about some of the values at Flagstar, the service, the trust, the accountability, and having good people, it's all predicated on teamwork. You'll hear a lot of people talk about teamwork. What I, and this is obviously coming from sport and playing football or soccer when I was younger, but teamwork to me is about collaboration. It's working together collaboratively and helping each other because we're stronger together. If you've got a team that's working well together, or you've got a team of individuals, the cohesive team is going to beat the team of individuals every day. I'm a big believer in communication. Communication isn't just top down. Communication is bottom up and across an organization. If you're sharing knowledge, we're all better off for it. I mentioned earlier I want to make sure the team has the tools and the platform to be as successful as they can be. You've got to tell me what you need, what isn't working. Whenever I go and have meetings with the team, the first question I ask is, 'I don't need you to tell me what's going well. Tell me what ticks you off. What can we be doing better?' Because that's how you're going to make the organization better. I don't need to know what's going well. Tell me what ticks you off because that's what we need to fix. The final part of the teamwork is transparency. Anyone should be able to talk to anybody about anything on any day at any time. I remember going back to Sandro and myself. If he came into my office and said, 'Hey, I'm gonna go and sit in on one of your direct reports' team meetings,' I would say, 'That's fantastic. They're going to love it.' But it's amazing how many companies today still have these silos. People are very protective of what they're managing, and they're afraid for hierarchy to come into that. You shouldn't have that. You should be totally confident and transparent in your team and everything that you're doing. The door should always be open. If you've got that collaboration, communication flowing in all directions, and transparency, that's very powerful.
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People probably feel heard and they feel valued and they feel like they make a difference in their company. Not only does communication flow, then respect flows. If that's not a common theme among elite companies or businesses or anything, it's respect from the bottom up and the top down because it only operates if everyone's on board giving their best.
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Lee Smith47:43
Exactly. I have always said titles do not interest me. I am not worried about that. We're all in this together. Whatever we all need to do to make sure that we're successful, we will do. We're all rowing in the same direction. I've never been interested. You can call me anything you like. I don't care because I just want to make sure as a team, as a collective, we win. If we're not winning, to your point, what have we learned and what do we need to do to get ourselves in a position to win?
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You just spoke to one of the things that I think plagues most companies. There's this old mindset belief where the managers almost hammer down the people underneath them. It's like, 'You will perform or else.' It's almost like a leadership through fear, and they are very closed off. What you just spoke about, everybody has their own silos. I don't know if it's from a place of insecurity or maybe that's how you feel like, 'Well, I'm going to keep my job if no one else can rise to the level that I'm at.' You'll witness people that'll almost put their thumb on the people's heads below them. Instead of teaching them the skills that would make them the best versions of themselves, which in turn rewards the company, they don't do that. It's a hierarchy through dominance and suppression versus a hierarchy like there is a hierarchy in any company culture, but it can be this positive flow of energy. I think you're speaking to that. Do you think it's just a limiting belief that maybe the managers have, or a lack of training, or a lack of leadership from the top down? Because you see that across the board.
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Lee Smith49:19
It's undoubtedly a lack of training and a lack of experience. One size does not fit all. You cannot, if the only style you've got is to threaten and bully, you're not going to last long. By the way, you're not going to have a team for long because those people are not going to respect that style of leadership and they're going to leave. It comes down to knowing the personalities of your team. Everyone's personality is different, so everybody is motivated in a different way. That's the whole sport analogy as well. The other thing that I think people don't realize when they're in a leadership position is 99.9% of people enjoy learning new things. It's exciting to learn how to solve a problem, learn a new language, learn a new skill set. If you're able to show people, 'Hey, I know we've always done things this way, but what about if we do things this way? Maybe it's a little more efficient. Maybe we can have a better customer experience. Maybe we can shorten the time frame of delivery to the customer.' Once you start to show people things, then I think people are much more open. It's about how you treat people with respect. It's not one size fits all. Coming back to sport, I think Nick Saban mentioned maybe only two times a year can he go into the dressing room at halftime at Alabama and scream at them because he said otherwise it just won't have an impact. He can only maybe get away with that twice a season and hope that it makes a difference. If he's doing that more than twice, he's lost them.
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100%. Your employees would be calloused. It would just be the normal, 'Here we go again.' You just spoke to something that people do want to grow, but it is uncomfortable for them. If you can extend your hand in an offer to assist them and not make them feel low level or like a loser, if you come at someone with your guns out saying, 'You have underperformed here and you should be doing this,' they're going to shell right up and they're not going to do anything. But if you can encourage them, support the level they're at right now, and say, 'Hey, there's growth here and I'll go through this journey with you. We're gonna do this together,' that's what moves the needle. People are generally moved by the way that they feel. The limbic system controls most people. It's not even your conscious thought. It's the way that you feel. So if I encourage you, I make you believe there's more to you than what you recognize right now. All I try to do for my students is I'm a mirror. I'm like, 'Don't even look to me. Look to within yourself. There is more than you realize, and we're gonna seek that greatness together. I'm gonna try to level up, and I want you to try to level up.' It's the same thing you're trying to get someone to a new mindset, belief system, activity, whatever it is. But the presentation is everything.
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Lee Smith52:27
There's no doubt about it. Also, take an athlete or someone in business. If you are just saying, 'You've got to get better, you've got to get better,' but you don't show them how, then they're just going to keep doing the same thing. It's the definition of insanity, doing the same thing but expecting a different result. If you then show them, 'Hey, maybe think about doing it this way,' and you're with them every step of the way the first two or three times, then it's a harmony. People are like, 'Oh, I get it now. Now I can apply.' It's the same in sport, in fighting. 'Hey, you're using this technique, but what about if you change it up and do this?' It's only when people are shown and then they're like, 'Oh, I get it,' and they enjoy learning something new. They appreciate the difference. It starts to snowball. But if you're just screaming at someone but offering no advice, no encouragement, and not showing them the way, the result is never going to change. To be honest, it's not even their failure at that point. It's you, 100%.