Marillyn Hewson10:42
Well, why I do it is because I love the work that our company does. I mean, we have some of the most important and interesting work in the world. And I would encourage you as you take a position with a company that you go to a company that you align with the values of that company and the purpose of that company because that's what attracts people to Lockheed Martin today is because they want to be a part of a company that is doing something larger than themselves, that they can make a difference, that's supporting our men and women in uniform, that's working on some of the most incredible technologies in the world for, you know, building satellites or fifth-generation aircraft, just a range of really incredibly important work that we do and innovative work. That's what attracts people to our company and it's important as a leader to make sure that you live the values of that company and that you identify with people that come about how important the work is that they do. I mean, our tagline is 'Your Mission is Ours' because we are very much focused on the mission of our customers. That's what attracted me to Lockheed Martin so many years ago. But you're right, as a leader, as any one of you will face in the course of your careers, you're going to face choices. And sometimes those choices affect your family, they affect you. You have to make choices, call them sacrifices, call them choices, whatever you might do. But in my case, my husband James and I were married very young, well, we were still, I was actually still a student at the university and he had just graduated. So we've been married from, I married my clearly my college sweetheart because I was even still in college when we got married. But we both agreed early on as the two of us that we would both have careers but whosever career had the greatest opportunities and the best for our family, that's the one we would pursue. So we're both in the corporate world and our boys were three and six and I was offered a promotion to move from Georgia. I started in Marietta, Georgia as an industrial engineer and James was also working at Lockheed at the time. And I was offered a promotion in Fort Worth, Texas which meant moving the family. And we talked about it, we always talked about every choice. The choices were always about what was best for our family and this was best for our family. It was also the indicator that I would be the one that would take the lead, that the stability and growth of my career was the one we were going to pursue. And so we decided to try James working from home for a year. You know, our boys were young and he left his corporate career and started a business from home, but he mainly became the at-home parent who then was the coach for their sports teams, was the Cub Scout leader and Scout leader. He was, you know, the one that went on all of the field trips with them. And what it allowed for me, my job required travel as well as more demands on me in the new role. But what it allowed for me was when I was home with the family, I wasn't doing what I used to call my second shift, all those other errands and all the things that he could do during the day while the kids were in school. And it allowed me to have the special time with the family and for me to take the time to really focus on the family as one of the parents. So we both gave the parenting to our children but it was in different ways and it's something we agreed on. This doesn't work for every family, you know, a family has to decide what's best for them. That happened to be best for us and we're frankly pretty unique back then. I think he was the only dad at home in the neighborhood and, you know, it just was unusual to have the male parent at home. But you know, I say you have to figure out what makes sense for you and your partner, your spouse, you know, whatever your arrangement is, your significant other, what is best for you. That was best for us and I don't think I could have ever done it if it had not been for him. I, you know, often tell people that, you know, I made some really great choices in my life and one of them was marrying James Houston because he has been my, you know, he has been by my side throughout my career and helped. And we have, you know, great sons that we both are so proud of and it's because we work together as a team on that. And my other great choice was joining Lockheed Martin, I'll tell you, because from coming in as an industrial engineer to rising to the CEO, it's something I never would have dreamed of but I had the opportunities with the company, the experiences and things that prepared me for that next big job. And so I think the balancing of the full support of family and particularly James but also our sons. I mean, when they were old enough to have a say in it, you know, we talk about the next move. And I have to tell you, I moved to eight different locations over the course of my 38 years of the company and they were a part of, you know, several of those and it was always about that next adventure, what was best for our family. And then we made the move. So those are some of the choices that I made, that we made as a family. And as I said, you know, people talk about work-life balance, I call it work-life integration. You probably heard that term in your business school studies because it is at different phases in your work life require different choices you have to make. Maybe you're going back to school to get your grad degree. I taught, you know, I taught in grad school and then after I left the university I taught in colleges while I was working full-time. You know, you make choices because you have an ill parent or a child, a new child, or you're going back to school or whatever. And all those things are important that you recognize that not everything is centered, your whole self-esteem is centered on the job that you're doing every day. It's not just that, it's got to be the whole life experience that you're dealing with. And so you have to make choices along the way and you have to be comfortable with those choices. And once you make them, don't look back, don't second-guess yourself. I mean, just go for it because those choices lead to other opportunities. And you know, I look at my career and I look at others' careers and I couldn't have mapped out what I did in my career. There's not a straight line up to CEO by any stretch. There's not a straight line to different career paths that you have. You have to be open to opportunities and make and take those choices and include those that are in your life, your significant others, your family or others that are significant to you in those choices that you make so you feel good about what your next step is.