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Today, life is about how we learn from the things we perform. I agree with you, very good. What I believe is that if you want to become your own coach, there are only two fundamental things: our will and belief. If we want to do something, that is our will. And our belief is that we can do something. So, will and belief, we can surely make ourselves our own coach.

Let's see, we have done some work on this. Let's look at the work we have done. 'Arise, awake, and stop not till the goal is reached.' These words of Swami Vivekananda can be an inspiration for every person who dreams of becoming something big in life. But due to family circumstances, financial conditions, or lack of resources, they cannot turn their dreams into reality. Many scholars say that there is nothing in the world for which one cannot inspire oneself. In our country, many such individuals were born, from Mahatma Gandhi, Lal Bahadur Shastri, APJ Abdul Kalam to Sachin Tendulkar, Sania Mirza, Shah Rukh Khan, who wrote their own destiny with their hard work and dedication. Therefore, it is important that we listen to our conscience because change begins with oneself.

Your point also came up. What others said, I... but still, sometimes we start talking about a subject but sometimes make a mistake in understanding its basic meaning. So, can I ask one or two people, what does 'coach' mean to you?

Very close to the right answer. Very good. So, we saw, I started by saying that perhaps we talk about the meaning of a coach, but we also think that everyone knows what a coach means. But here we talked to five people and we got almost different answers from all five. But what I understand is, a person, a coach is a person who helps you improve your performance. And secondly, a good coach is one who knows... I repeat my point, a coach knows that whatever skill, strength, talent you have inside you, a good coach never says that I am teaching you. A good coach only brings out what is inside you and shows it to you, saying, 'Look, you have this skill. You have this power. You can do this.' This is a coach in the true sense. There is a big difference between a teacher and a coach. A teacher teaches you many things about which we have no knowledge. He also tells you that. A coach only brings out what is inside you and places it in front of you. And where you make a little mistake, he points it out to you. Although, as you said, the person himself knows his mistakes and strengths. But still, if you don't have anything inside you, no coach can make you a good player or a good performer. This is my belief.

If we take this forward, I say this repeatedly in this show, that three things are essential in life. One is your knowledge, which you get in your college, everywhere, you have come here too. You have come to learn. Your teachers give it to you. So, knowledge can be gained from third sources. Experience is number two. When you go for an exam or an interview, the first thing they ask is how educated you are, what is your background? The second thing they ask is, do you have experience? So, second is experience. Experience can be transferred. A person who is more knowledgeable than you, a more experienced person, can transfer their experience to you. But there is a third thing, which is a must. What is that?

Skill. Skill is equal to... Skill is a combination of knowledge and experience, hard work... Who said talent? Yes, stand up. What is your name?

Yes. What does talent mean according to you? This is the right answer, absolutely. Let's clap for Krishna.

That is talent. Good point. Very good. This is a very good answer. Talent is a third thing. As Krishna said, what you can do, perhaps others cannot do as well, that is called talent. But there is a definition of talent. Talent is something you are born with. Talent cannot be transferred. It cannot be acquired. I had a debate about this with the dean of Wharton School. He said, 'No, there are courses, we can transfer talent in three months, we charge thousands of dollars.' I challenged him. I said, 'Show me by transferring talent.' They couldn't win. Talent is either you have it in you or you don't have it in you. And also, every man, every woman has some talent. There is no person who doesn't have some talent. So, the one who brings out that talent is what we call a coach.

Now, how to become your own coach? First, prepare yourself to become your own coach. This is only preparation. For this, he said, first, remove the word 'lazy' from your dictionary. There is no place for laziness in the life of a coach. And if you want to become your own coach, you have to be away from laziness. Second, prioritize your actions. Otherwise, what will happen? If you don't prioritize, you will get entangled in activity and action. Because action is a different thing. Activity is a different thing. Activity is like brushing your teeth. At that time, you don't have to think that I have to brush my teeth. You open your eyes and go straight. That's an activity. You stand under the shower, your hand automatically goes towards the soap, and you apply the soap, and your attention is somewhere else. You are thinking about something else, 'Today I have to meet my girlfriend. Let me apply soap vigorously.' Your attention is on the girlfriend, but you are applying soap. That's an activity. So, there is a difference between activity and action. Action is when you do some work thoughtfully to achieve your goal, to achieve your purpose. That is action. Activity is just routine. You are existing. There are many people in life. Many times, when I was young, we used to travel, and sometimes we felt like being mischievous. So you are sitting somewhere in a restaurant, in a pub. So you start looking at a boy's or girl's hand. I am telling you a secret. If you look at someone's hand, both left and right hands, and if there is no difference in the lines of both hands, then understand that the person is merely existing in life, he has no mission. Now you all started looking at your hands, right? Because he doesn't work hard. He doesn't make efforts. Because science has also accepted that with efforts, the lines of your life, the lines of your hand, change. There is no religion or belief or anything like that in this. It is a proper science.

No, I say contrary to that. If you want to become your own coach, we are talking only about the limited subject of being a coach of yourself, sir. Rather, you will shorten the time because you know your strength and your own weaknesses. If I have to identify your talent, I have to learn this art. And even then, I may not be perfectly 100% right. But you know yourself what you are. So, therefore, to become your own coach, you will rather shorten the time to reach to the excellence. So now I come to the process of self-coaching. First, one thing. Many of us in life become very action-oriented. But many times, and many times we think, 'Man, I am very smart.' We all believe. We should believe. We should have confidence in ourselves, and only then will you be able to move forward. But the belief system is still behind the eyes. It is in your mind. Where is the mind here? Behind the eyes. What you believe about yourself, bring it in front of your eyes. Start writing it. And put it in a laptop, put it in an iPad, whatever you use. Bring that in front of you. Because when you see it in front, you will say, 'No, I wrote this correctly. I wrote this wrong.' It's about yourself. So, bring it on a piece of paper in front of you. And second, which we sometimes do for wrong reasons, do it for the right reason. Tell your story to somebody. If you are ashamed to tell someone else, then stand in front of this lamp and start telling it. Tell your story. When you tell your story, you will also listen to it yourself. In that, you will also learn and understand your strengths, weaknesses, whatever they are. You will be happy with yourself. You will have to fix your weaknesses. And now, because you are not lazy, you were lazy before, now you are not lazy, so you will start acting on it. And then we say, track the progress. Just like you do in your studies, you have exams and tests. Start taking your own tests. See how you are progressing with your own coaching. You will find yourself that, 'Yes, I am progressing very well.' Recently, I met a military captain at an airport. A young person. NDA, if you want to go to the army, you go to NDA for 3 years. They start at the age of 16. Then after that, they have proper training for one and a half years. So he said, 'Sir, when I went there, our colonel asked me to run. I started panting within 1 kilometer. Slowly, slowly, I did cross country of 16 km. It took me 80 minutes the first time. And it felt like all my life was about to leave my body. My life was stuck in my mouth, as if I was about to die. But slowly, slowly, as I started doing it, he said, 'Today I can do cross country in 10 minutes.' I never knew that my body had so much strength, so much resilience.' So when you start doing this, you will start knowing your strength, your capacity. So, track your progress. And if you feel that something is not going right, then you should not hesitate in changing your track also, which you can change. You very well know that if I run after eating, I will start panting quickly. So, from now on, I will not eat before running. If one day you didn't get proper sleep, then the next day if you want to do physical or any exercise, you will get tired quickly. So, from today, I will start sleeping early. So, these kind of improvements and changes, track changes, you have to have. So, this is all. There is no big rocket science in this.

Looking at the circumstances of that time, I had to become my own coach. But when life started moving, I started working at the age of 16. But when I started moving forward, wherever I got stuck, I made my grandfather my coach and learned from him. And I moved forward under his guidance.

Oh wow! Who were those people whose love was met with love? Yes. See, in life, it's not like that. You have to trust someone or the other. And remember one more thing. If you believe in yourself, if you believe in your ability that I will be successful, then first of all, you won't need to ask others. But still, if you need to, and if there is someone you can trust a little... your parents, siblings, someone you will trust. But still, weigh it on the scale of your ability and your belief, whether what he said was right or not. If your mind doesn't feel right, leave it. Do what your mind says. So, that's why it is most important to believe in yourself. Then you will move forward.

So today, I want to introduce you to a young lady who was a cricketer before marriage. She used to play good cricket. After marriage, she stopped playing herself. But still, she thought, why not share my talent with the poor children around me after marriage? Why not share my experience? We call such women change-makers. Jigna Gajjar ji is among us. Welcome, Jigna.

She shared that thing with poor children after playing. And not only did she teach them cricket, but she also teaches them studies along with it. A big round of applause for Jigna ji.

Jigna ji, how do you feel now? How many years has it been doing this?

Very good. And with that confidence, that belief I had in myself, with that belief, I have reached this level today.

Yes, you can say that.

Yes, you can say that too.

When you meet your first love, he doesn't feel bad?

Very good. If there was home tension, I might not have been able to teach the children better or with concentration.

So, the happiness you are getting to pursue your passion, behind this is one, your husband's hand. A man's hand.

Correct. Let's have your questions for Jigna ji.

Okay. Why think negative? See, we often make this mistake. Sit down. We often make this mistake. 'If this happened to me, what will I do? What will I do?' And fear is such a thing that multiplies. By the passage of fraction of a second, it multiplies. And before a second is over, you start believing that this has happened to me. Yes. So, believing this, we accept it, and from that, negative thoughts keep multiplying. A day comes when we have to take a pill. We have to take an antidepressant drug. So, don't let negative thoughts come. When something happens, we will see then, we will solve it.

Jigna ji, my viewers are watching your program from home. Looking at this camera, what would you like to say to youngsters or those who want to play cricket?

Very good. A big round of applause for Jigna ji. Jigna ji, you came to my show. Thank you so much, sir. Thank you. Thank you very much.

So now, friends, I will introduce you to another guest who is a bigger motivator than me, Ashish ji Soparkar. Welcome. He is the Managing Director of Meghmani Group of Companies. In 1977, he started work on a small scale, and today his business is spread in many ways. What would you like to say to the youth here and those watching this program from home?

Very good.

What do you study, sir?

Very good. Wow, wow. So, sing a couplet today.

Wow, wow. Very good, very good. Proud. Thank you very much. Thank you very much. Thank you very much.

What did we learn just now? How do you feel? Do you feel any change from when you came until now? Would anyone like to share what change you are feeling?

Oh wow! What is your passion? Will you tell us?

No, no, sir, I... okay. Are you proud of it?

Try, so don't leave it. Yes.

Co-powered by Kajaria. There is something for everyone. Sponsor: Green Panel MDF. After the 2013 disaster, Kedarnath Dham was reconstructed, and the master plan for Badrinath Dham is also being worked on. If you go, you will see that the number of pilgrims and devotees has increased very rapidly. Just now, you must have come from Delhi to Dehradun, so you are reaching here in a maximum of two and a half hours. You are reaching Haridwar. You are reaching Rishikesh. So, due to the increase in these facilities, the footfall is very large. And the number is very large. Of pilgrims coming, of tourists coming. If I talk about tourists in the last four years, more than 23 crore tourists have come to Devbhoomi Uttarakhand. So, as you said, it is a challenge for us to conduct everyone's journey in an organized manner. It is a challenge for us to ensure their safety, that their journey is safe. So, we are continuously making efforts on all those parameters, continuously, that the journey of the travelers is good, organized, simple, without any obstacles. So, a large number coming is in itself a very big proof of prosperity. And along with this, see, this journey is not just like a tourist's journey. This is a journey of faith. A journey of devotion. It has two aspects. It is a journey of Sanatan, and for the state of Uttarakhand, this is a lifeline. It is also a very big reason for our economy. So, if the journey is big, then prosperity has definitely come, as you have written in the dialogue.

What is the situation regarding the ropeway? The work of the ropeway... and secondly, what is done this year is done, but do you have some more plans for next year? Although there are actions for next year too. But some things that you feel, that you have thought of, that for the pilgrims of Char Dham, this thing is left to complete, or this is my goal. See, this year also, a very good journey is happening. Yes, this is true. You are not saying it, but it will be in your mind that some people show pictures of crowds, make videos, put them on the internet, and somewhere directly or indirectly oppose this journey for their political benefit. So I have told them many times, I have very humbly requested them that you oppose us, oppose our government, oppose our policies. We will have no problem. But brother, do not oppose the journey of Char Dham. This is a place of Hari. This is the work of Dharma. This is the work of Sanatan. This is the reason for the prosperity of our state. This is a very big reason for our economy. It is a reason for employment. They don't see that brother, hotels are full. People are earning good income in hotels. Taxis are running well. Our homestays are all full. Our women who run self-help groups, the products made by them, people are buying them in large numbers. So, they are getting an identity. Our brands are going across the country and the world. They don't see that. For political reasons, that the journey is not right. There is too much crowd in the journey. We will make a video and put it. Oh brother, people are coming, so we won't send them back. We have said that whoever comes, whoever pilgrims come, we will show them the darshan of the four dhams in an organized and safe manner, and also of other divine places. So this is just opposition, or there is another reason for this too, that you are becoming a big face of Hindutva, and especially in Uttarakhand, all the decisions are taken keeping Hindus in mind. It is said, and it is also said that wherever a madrasa is seen, Dhami ji gets a bulldozer run on it.

No, no, see, they can oppose me. Just now their leader came. He said something and left. He came and left. See, he had to go to Almora. He had to go to Pauri. There was a program in Dehradun for a day, perhaps somewhere here. Oh, I was just hearing that some people were also saying that the Uttarakhand government stopped them, DGCA stopped them, the people of Yugada stopped them. Oh brother, neither do we know which helicopter you are coming in. We did not provide that helicopter. Nor did we give any permission from here that you will come in this helicopter. That must be their contracted helicopter. The pilots will also be theirs. Now, in that, okay, you couldn't go. They said there was no safety, so they didn't go. Okay, you didn't go to Almora, then you didn't go to Pauri either. Oh, the weather was good in Dehradun. You could have gone to Delhi and come back. If you had to go to Delhi and come back from Delhi. If you... they were showing in Andaman on the same day as me. Meaning, they didn't want to stay in Uttarakhand. So, in this way, they can oppose us. Oppose our government. Oppose our party. We accept it. We accept their challenge. But if they oppose Char Dham, oppose Sanatan, try to interfere with our cultural demography here, do appeasement, then we will oppose. But they are coming to help the citizens of Uttarakhand...