Naval Ravikant12:50
Yeah, yeah, I don't want to get autobiographical again. I don't think it's useful or relevant, plus it just makes me uncomfortable. But I would say in general, I have bad ideas all day, I make mistakes all day long. And you know, you just kind of notice them and you correct. Just don't get too attached to it. Actually, it helps if you tell other people about your mistakes. In fact, you know, I made a financial mistake about two years ago, and my wife hears about it to this day. You know, I probably think about it every single day or every other day, I kind of moan about it. It was a big one, and it was an obvious one in hindsight, where I even told myself I'm probably making a mistake, but I just didn't, you know, part of me didn't listen to another part of me. So at least if I'm public about it, then I can't hide from it. And Buffett does the same thing, right? He'll stick it in his annual newsletter when he makes a mistake. In fact, I believe Berkshire Hathaway is named after a textile business that he bought early on that he thought would be a value business, but that's where he learned that it's not about the cost, it's about the quality of the business. And he bought a poor quality business at a good price, but it turned out to be a bad price because it's just a poor quality business. And so he named his entire conglomerate Berkshire Hathaway to remind himself that, you know, that's the kind of investment that he should avoid. So I think that's actually pretty smart. So I think being public about your failures and being honest with yourself is kind of the best way to do it. And look, most actions and most ideas are failures. Just get over it. It's all error correction. That's how mother nature works with evolution. That's how invention works with trial and error. That's how science works with conjecture and criticism. And that's just how our lives work. We are creative idea generating machines that are always testing those ideas against reality. Society is the best set of such ideas that we have that has withstood the test of time, but that is not designed for the individual. That is balanced for the needs of society. And the individual has to rediscover for themselves what will work best for them and still allow them to function in society while being compatible with their DNA, their environment, their unique skill sets, their education, and their experience. And so you just kind of have to go through it. You just have lots and lots of ideas, and the only mistake is to think that you have the right idea forever. There's no such thing. You just keep correcting and correcting and correcting. I would say that one thing that helps a lot is as you go through this more and more, as you just get older in life, you realize that it's all about long-term. All the classical virtues are really just saying to you, whether it's in the Bible or whether it's the Romans or whether it's the ancient Greeks or whether it's the Stoics or whatever, they're all saying kind of just focus on the long term and don't focus on the short term. Most of the vices, most of the so-called acts of the devil, are basically temptations of cheap dopamine. And if you can avoid those and just focus on long-term rewards and payoffs, you will do better on average than someone who focuses on the short term. Now, gluttony is like, don't eat too much, because even though it tastes good now, you'll get sick later. Lust is, you know, don't covet your neighbor's wife or husband because you're going to then get in trouble and possibly get killed or ostracized or ruin your marriage, etc., etc. You can go through every single one of these. All of the classical virtues are basically saying optimize for the long term instead of the short term. And if you just want to do less 180s in your life, if you want to have better long-term thinking, optimize more for the long term the same way. I think if you broaden the scope of your thinking based on your needs, then you're going to have better outcomes in life. For example, if you can't even take care of yourself physically or financially, then obviously you focus on that. But once you can take care of yourself physically, financially, and mentally, then you have to start focusing on others. If you have too narrow of an operative aperture and you stay self-obsessed, you can be a miserable human being because your mind will just self-obsess and nothing will ever be good enough and you'll just keep feeding the ego until it literally implodes. But if you sort of start broadening your aperture the moment you have excess resources, then you can start taking care of your family and then maybe your tribe or your people and eventually everyone in the world. I mean, that's the ultimate goal, to do something like what Elon Musk is doing, which is taking all these excess resources and using it for things that are ostensibly good for humanity. And everyone may not agree with you on what's good for humanity, but you know, as long as you have your own vision, that will sort of help take you out of your own ego and your own mind and make you just a much happier person overall. It'll be sort of self-fulfilling and you'll have to do less error correction along the way because your aperture will be both wide in helping a lot of people and will also be long. It'll also be looking very, very far out. And the goal, I think, is to get to sort of a 360-degree infinite view where you're doing what's best for all of society from your own needs, from your own base of power and strength. So you are taken care of. That doesn't mean you run out and give away all your money or give away all your time to charity, because you still have to function, you still have to be happy. But you want to get to a position where you have everything that you want and then your cup automatically runs over and you can just kind of help the people around you again in the way that is best expressed through your unique DNA and experience. And then if you take the longest-term view on that, your entire life or many lives beyond, then you literally have nothing to worry about because there's no one to worry about. You yourself are taken care of. It's about all your goals and needs are going to the outside world. And then you can't lose. If the world doesn't give you what you want at that point, then it's just kind of cheating itself in a way. Elon had to become the richest man in the world because he was putting everything into giving the world what it needs, and so the world kind of has to take care of him because not letting Elon win means that the world loses. So I mean, this is getting a little metaphysical, but I just mean that people can sort of sense when you are working on long-term time frames and when you're working relatively unselfishly. Look, we all have to be selfish. If you're not selfish, you don't survive. Without the self, there is no survival, the physical self that is. And so you can't act selfless, and the actors are the worst. But if you can truly get to the point where your self needs are taken care of and then you can be selfless just by the virtue of excess resources, it makes you much better off. I don't know if I answered your question at all. I think I rambled for a bit.