Anthony Scaramucci1:25
First of all, it's very flattering. Thank you. The kids in my neighborhood were as smart as anybody else. If their dad was putting in sheetrock or the dad was a plumber, or like my dad was a crane operator, it didn't mean the kids were stupid or the family was stupid, it had to do with limitations of society where you're born, the hustle of trying to make your ends meet. In my dad's case, I would probably say his mistake that he made is when he got out of the army, rather than accept the GI Bill because he already had a kid, he felt pressured to go right to work. He may have been better. I don't know if you ever played the game of life, where you spin the wheel, you can make a choice to go to college. It takes longer, you make more money, or you can go directly to work, you make less money. But it doesn't mean people are necessarily dumber. I used to tell people in my law school class, kids in my neighbor are as smart as you, and in some cases, probably smarter, but they didn't have the guidance. When you talk about nature versus nurture, my mother's a lefty. She's 84. She got trained by nuns and her mother to write right-handed because if you were a lefty back in the day and you were Catholic and you grew up in this superstitious Italian family, they would teach you how to write right-handed. But my mom, she can do the math in her head. And when she reads something, she never forgets it. So, I guess what I'm saying is, is that there's a lot of stereotypes that we need to scrape away in our society. There are so many people out there that are incredibly smart and gifted, but just for a couple of breaks, a couple of opportunities in some diligence, and to your point, persistence. When you're getting beaten up or destroyed, you got to get up and move. You can't sit there and have any feelings of self-victimization or self-pity. For me, my parents said, you're going to go to college. I thought I was going to go to the local college. My father came home from work one day, turned to my older brother and me, he said, "You're going to Tufts." And then he said, "It's spelled T-O-U-G-H-S." My brother was like, okay. He looked up in the Barron's phone book. Like the directory of colleges. He opened up the book and he said, "Dad, it's spelled T-U-F-T-S. I think it's somebody's last name. And by the way, it's most selective. We're not going there. I don't know what you're talking about." But my dad was working hang trucks as a dispatcher at the time. He started as a crane operator, was weighing trucks, and there was a guy named Billy Tommaso, who's now deceased, may his soul rest in peace, but he told my father that he went to Tufts and that he would get me and my brother an interview there and he would help us get in there. What my father also didn't understand at the time was that it was $24,000 a year. It's probably 70 or 80 today. But back then, it was a private school, still is, and it was very expensive. My brother went, I followed him there, and we were hustling there. We were delivering pizzas, selling t-shirts. I was working in the economics department as a research assistant while I was going to school because I didn't really have the money. And then my dad got me a union job, which is why I have tinnitus, by the way, because this is a mess, everybody out there with your ear pods, lower the volume because you're going to end up with tinnitus. You're not going to like the tinnitus when you get to my age, but I was working on a construction site without the hearing protection every summer to get myself through school. I'm probably being too long-winded, but I think there's three things I would say. Number one, nature versus nurture. There's a lot of people that are very smart, but they don't have the nurturing trajectory. Number two, if you're getting your ass kicked somewhere in your life, shut up, don't be a victim. Get up and get going. And number three, take joy in wherever you are. Can't live like some of these people live. I mean, I'm surrounded by like some miserable millionaires. You're studying billionaires, but I got to tell you, I got friends of mine worth a hundred million dollars. They're upset that they're not worth 2 billion. Are you out of your mind? The fact that you're living on planet earth with that kind of money in our society with this level of freedom and opportunity, you should be very happy. So, you have to always have a good perspective.