Dave Ferguson11:22
It's also an issue physically. We don't talk about this, but nearly half of church leaders meet the clinical definition of obesity. Mentally, 53% of church leaders have seriously considered leaving the pastoral ministry recently. Spiritually, since 2020, church leaders are actually praying less and spending less time in scripture. There's a lot of ways to explain this, but I think one of the ways we can explain this is we drifted. We're drifting. If we continue to drift, we're going to end up someplace we never intended to be. Part of the reason I'm starting at this point because I don't want that to happen to any of you. I don't want it to happen to me. Do me a favor. Turn to the person next to you and just say, "You know what? I don't want this to happen to you." Right? I don't want this to happen to you.
So here's what we're going to do. In the spirit of both holiness and multiplication, of both being healthy and making an impact, I want to spend the rest of our time talking to you about how do you avoid drift and how do you be a healthy leader that makes a lasting impact. Here on this napkin, you're going to draw, I'm going to give you a tool that you can put on the back of this napkin because one side's your dream, the other side's going to be the strategy. Here's the strategy. This is the tool. I want it to be simple enough that you can write this down so you know it, but then you can also share it with somebody else. That would just make my day that someday you email me or text me, "Hey, I want you to know not only am I doing this, but I'm sharing it with somebody else who's also doing this." So, here we go. Let's start with the first circle. This circle right here, you know what this circle is? Go ahead and draw a circle on your napkin. That circle's you. That circle's you. Now, what I want to do next is go ahead and put an X in the middle of that circle. That X is St. Andrew's cross, that stands for Christ in you. Christ in you. In fact, Romans 8:9 tells us, the spirit of God dwells in you. Let's try it again. First Corinthians says, "Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit that lives in you." So do me a favor. Put your hand on your heart. There you go. Now I want you to put it close enough to your heart that you can feel that thump, thump, thump. You feel that? What that is, that's not just something that keeps you alive. What you're feeling there placed by God is difference-making potential. I'm telling you, difference-making potential. Now some of you are going like, "Well, I guess they have the mid-afternoon motivational speaker here." No, this is not mid-afternoon motivational speaking. Here's what I want you to get. How many of you have said yes to following Jesus? Come on. Right. We're pretty excited about that. When you say yes to following Jesus, his spirit comes to life inside you. Can I get an amen? Is his spirit alive inside you? So guess what? Put your hand back on your chest. Inside you is the spirit of Jesus. If Jesus is in you, come on, put your hand on your chest. If Jesus is inside you, then everything that's needed to change a life is inside you. Amen. Everything that's needed to change a family is in here. Do you believe that inside you is everything that's needed to change a city? What about change the world? Everything that's needed to change the world exists in you. If that's true, I'm telling you that thump, thump, thump, there's difference-making potential inside you. It's in you. Turn to somebody near you and just say, "Hey, it's in you." That's right. Now, here's the key question. Will you make yourself available to the spirit that lives inside of you? Because what you really are if Jesus is inside you, you're not only a Christ follower, but you are a multiplier. A multiplier is a healthy disciple-making leader that champions reproduction. I just want to start there that there is huge difference-making potential inside all of you. Also, don't forget inside all the people in your churches. They don't realize it yet, but it's in there. It's in you. But having said that, don't let that scare you. Because guess what? We're still going to screw things up. We're still going to occasionally drift and have to realign. We're not going to get it all right. But you can still make a lasting impact. Let me give you an example. One of my first ministry jobs, I was a youth pastor. The church had the budget for me to have an intern. I was 21, a senior in college. So I asked my buddy Larry, who's a junior, if he'll be my intern. I thought we'd have a good time. I would always tell Larry, "Hey Larry, I am mentoring the next generation." One day I take Larry to the hospital to visit a young adult who had gastric bypass surgery. On the way to the hospital, I'm explaining to Larry, here's what you do during a hospital call. I said, "Here's three things to remember. Number one, be encouraging. Number two, pray. Number three, don't stay too long." So simple. So I walk in to visit this young adult. I confidently introduce us. I make some small talk. Then my mouth says what my brain should have stopped. I looked at that patient and said, "You know, making this decision to go forward with the surgery, that took a lot of guts." Seriously, true story. My friend Larry, the intern, he's looking at the floor, trying not to lose it. The patient's staring at me like, "That's the best you got?" And I'm thinking to myself, "How do I disappear?" So I tell you that story because we're going to give it our best effort. We're going to make mistakes. It's going to be messy. All that stuff's going to happen. But the good news is, even through all of our imperfections, what he simply wants is, will you just make yourself available? Because my spirit's going to prompt you to do things. My spirit knows how to make a difference. He knows how. Will you just make yourself available? That's where we're headed. I want to show you how to spend the next 20 or 25 years of your life to make a lasting impact. Some of you in here, you got 40 or 50. Some of you look like you got five. So I split the difference. I'm kidding. That was bad. I take that back. Being a multiplier. Let's start with the inside. It looks like a steering wheel because there are different gauges like a car dashboard. A car dashboard has a gas gauge, an oil gauge, a temperature gauge. If any of those gauges overheat or show up on empty, you ignore it at your own risk. We start on the inside because if you're unhealthy on the inside, you're going to multiply unhealth on the outside. We got to watch these gauges to make sure you don't drift. A multiplier routinely checks four gauges. You might go like, "Did you just make this up?" No, this comes straight from Luke 2:52. This was Jesus' own leadership development model. He grew in wisdom, stature, favor with God, and with man. Those are mental, physical, relational, and spiritual. Let's spend a little time talking about each of these four gauges.
That's good. You guys are still drawing this. You get this little model down, this little tool, and you do this and share with other people. I'm telling you, you can make a huge impact. It starts with a relational gauge because who you surround yourself with shapes who you become. At 25, your friends are the single biggest predictor of your future direction. At 45, your friends are the single biggest predictor of your future success. At 65, your friends are the biggest predictor of you finishing well. Proverbs 27:17 says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." You got to ask that question: who is sharpening you? So pay close attention to the relational gauge. Next is the physical gauge. I think this is one Christians often ignore, but this is a spiritual issue. Back to 1 Corinthians 6:19, "Do you not know that your bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit?" I've had the opportunity to run three different marathons. Not fast. But I learned a very important lesson in running 26.2 miles. You cannot complete a marathon simply on determination, prayer, and an inspirational Spotify list. You got to fuel your body. There are things that God wants to do through so many of you, and you got to be a good steward of this body. If you're here with your spouse, turn to your spouse and say, "You got a good body." Go ahead. You can say that. It feels kind of good, doesn't it? I think God gave you a good body. In some cases, he meant for you to do like an 85, 90-year run, and you're going to check out at 50 or 65. You're going to get to heaven and he's going to be gracious, welcome you, but then look at his watch and go, "Hey, you're a little early. What happened?" Some people don't complete the ministry marathon not because they don't love Jesus, but because they weren't good stewards of this body. I was talking to a friend the other day who lost some weight the old-fashioned way. I asked him how it affected his leadership. He said, "I just feel different when I walk into the room. I feel more confident." We're whole people. Take care of this body. Check your physical gauge: sleep, exercise, rest. Then there's the mental gauge. Romans 12:2 says, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." I thought Scott did such a great job with that first talk. He named trauma. You've been through that. Ministry is a mental battlefield. It creates stress, anxiety. It's hard not to give in to people pleasing. We've got to pay attention. It might be renewing our mind through soaking in scripture, practicing gratitude. One thing I do in my journal every day is name three things I'm thankful for. For some, it might be counseling or therapy. Just turn it off for an hour. Check your mental gauge. Finally, there's our spiritual gauge. This is like the engine because without it, nothing else matters. John 15:5 says, "I'm the vine, you're the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit. Apart from me, you can do nothing." The Bible says your spiritual life will be nothing, your impact will be nothing. When you put all these together, it reminds me of an illustration from the early 1900s. Two explorers, Roald Amundsen and Robert Scott, set out to be the first to reach the South Pole. They faced the same brutal conditions. Scott's strategy was inconsistent: on good days push to exhaustion, on bad days hunker down. Amundsen had a different approach: every single day they would go 20 miles, no matter what. Guess who made it first? Amundsen did. 20 miles a day. He made it and returned safely. Scott and his team perished. The lesson: we got to let the spirit of Jesus lead us with steady, consistent, faithful habits of checking these gauges. Let me get as practical as I can. One of the things I do, I challenge you to take four minutes a day to check these four gauges. Just write RPMs in your journal and ask, "Am I empty or full?" If I feel like I'm drifting, what step do I need to take? Do it prayerfully. Four minutes a day will keep you from ending up someplace you never intended to be. You can be a healthy leader. This lines up with the holiness practices from your heritage. We start on the inside because you're going to reproduce who you are. But you're also going to reproduce what you do. I'm not looking just for healthy leaders. We're getting on offense now to make a lasting impact. How does that happen? Let's finish up the outside of this tool. Practice number one: make disciplemakers. Jesus didn't say go preach sermons or lead Bible studies. He said go make disciples who make disciples. A simple understanding of a disciple: someone who hears from God and does what he says. Don't just lead a Bible study; disciple someone to lead a Bible study. Multiplication happens when disciples become disciple makers. Addition says, "I'll do the thing." Multiplication says, "I'll disciple one and teach them to disciple another." How do you know if you're a disciple maker?