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“My mother asked the local principal why I was being beat up at school every day and why I was nearly killed — what he said to my mother was: 'I'm afraid I can't do anything about that Mary because I'm friends with the kids who are beating up your son.'”
On , John Sweeney, Vice President of Investor Relations at West Pharmaceutical Services, spoke about institutional failure during Beat bullying with kindness | John Sweeney | TEDxYouth@StPeterPort on TEDxTalks.
In a 2016 TEDxYouth talk, John Sweeney, Vice President of Investor Relations at West Pharmaceutical and founder of the "Suspender Coffees" social movement, spoke about his experiences with bullying. Sweeney stated that he was bullied by teachers and other children during his school years, describing an incident where a teacher punched him in the back and another where students held his hands while one karate-chopped his throat, which he said nearly killed him. He said that being bullied "stays with you forever" and that he thinks about it every day. Sweeney advocated for replacing anti-bullying programs with a "kindness curriculum" in schools, workplaces, and homes. He argued that "bullies aren't born — they're raised," attributing bullying behavior to factors such as a strained home life or abuse. Sweeney cited the deaths of several young people by suicide after bullying and said that "kindness... can change lives and even save a life." He described himself as the founder and Chief Kindness Officer of a global social movement called "Suspender Coffees."