Daniel Ek1:39:14
Yeah. Um, I think Neco is like an example of this. I met your co-founder on it and I got to to see this too and I was like, 'Oh, like this is cool.' Like who made the machines? It's just like we did. Yeah. And and then I didn't know it was like I don't know if stealth is the right word, but from the idea to the first time the customer happened, it was what, like six years or something or four years. No, it's uh the company's eight years old and we barely began. Yeah. And it's like, okay, that's an insane love. That's an understanding like we're t tackling one something that's Yeah. I like what you just said like uh innovation and creativity is actually a combination of things that occurred before that we're combining. Yeah. Right. And um when when you mentioned that I thought of like you know James Dyson is one of my entrepreneur heroes. And what I love about one of the hidden things that people don't know is he wrote a book called the history of great inventions. And he it's such like it's not it's kind of a bland read, right? God bless his heart. But like it's just him going through like little Wikipedia pages or like my ver his version of like Wikipedia pages about like what this inventor did, how he did it, and what the result was. And then you see him take these ideas from like 700 or whatever. And I was like, 'Oh, I'll just take like that little piece out here and I'll combine it with this piece.' And then what's what's the new technology today that enables me to solve this problem that didn't exist a few years ago. So you have this patience, right? You have this desire to solve problems. It's almost like it sounded like to me and maybe you could disagree with me like you're sounding like you see a giant puzzle. Yeah. 100%. Now you have uh like you can you have more resources you can be patient like you couldn't have done neco 20 when you were 23 y right but you have this great quote that I know is important to you and it says quality is never an accident. It is always the result of intelligent effort. Yeah. We haven't talked about quality at all. Even though like Spotify is the high like if you compare your competitors like it's just in a class by itself. So it's obviously very important to you like we can't we have to talk about quality. So like do you want to like just pick up where that quote leaves off?
Well well there there's so many strands of quality, right? Um um it it it is both um sort of the distinction of taste whether taste is subjective or objective. You can go so many ways with this question, but um the way I think about quality um is um I I think so much of your early life um certainly in my case was the formulation of just trying to go for more. And the further I've gotten uh I've realized um and and it's about everything, right? You mass more stuff. uh you mess uh you try to do um you know more things at the same time. You you try to do all of these things um at the same time. And the further you go, you realize that um it it it really is about sort of ultimately this very simplistic tribe thing, less is more. And and the older I get, I feel it more and more. Um you know, we talked about it with friends. Um, I think most people uh start out thinking having more friends is better, but I think more people are happier with fewer but better friends than many friends. Um, and and so I think quality is ultimately this sort of notion around um focusing um distilling uh getting to the essence. Uh we we can even talk about like quality in communication is often trimming things down and saying less things, right? Um why is it for instance that when we're talking about very hard things, most people's instant reaction is just to try to add more complexity to the issue instead of just simplifying it. They're just trying to um be courageous and just trying to say the thing right out loud. the older I get, the more my instinct is towards turning towards that. And I'm reminded even if we go back to investing because like part of why I sort of liked investing has nothing to do with money. It started with uh honestly this fact that all of a sudden I had more money than I knew what to do with and I sort of didn't want to just hand it off to a bank and and uh without understanding anything about it. But what what sort of got me deeper curious about it is uh I realized that investing is is actually more about um learning about your temperament than it is about the specific action that you're doing. Your temperament actually it's it's more about being in line with your temperament than than not or which game you're picking needs to be suited to you and your circumstances and how you want to play this than anything else. And so again we come back to philosophy. Um and so uh one of the concepts um uh is obviously around um that Mer talks about coming back to Mer reference again is it's diversification right and and he calls it somewhat simplified diversification because the common wisdom of course is in theory diversification is is the best thing you can do but the truly greatest people um financially if that's the only yard stick you use typically do completely the opposite of that which is they have often times only one assets maybe they'll have two or three but they certainly don't have more than that and they just go for that there's a realization you have right cuz like I read something you read a line and you're like okay let me filter that through like how I would say it so I I do this all the time where like I'll take notes on all the books that I read and then I'll reread them I'll just jot it down it's like what's occurring there can I put it into one sentence and one thing I stumbled upon about this was that sometimes The uh Nick Sleep has this great quote where he's like the best investors are not investors at all. They're entrepreneurs never sold. And me and you have talked about this, the fact that there's a lot of people that have like sold way too early and they're like lauded and it's like what if you just didn't do that everything else you did like you if you just didn't sell uh so Nick talks about this is like and it's in other books it's like if Sam Walton didn't give away the stock in Walmart to his kids before it appreciated you know you have one of the largest fortunes by a single person ever for the ownership the concentration of ownership in Walmart and Sam talks about he's like I didn't really do investing in anything but Walmart Right? And it's like he wasn't waking up saying, 'I need to diversify my portfolio. I need to worry about capital allocation.' He's just like, 'I believe in what I'm doing. I'm going to keep doing it. I'm going to throw all my money in there.' And he's just like, 'I' doing it because I love to do it.' And spending time doing anything else would be an absolute distraction. And Nick Sleeve talks about this because he's a capital allocator. He's not building a product, but he's making capital allocation decisions like, 'Do I need to sell this stock, put into another one? I'm weighing my opportunity costs.' And he was haunted almost by this idea. If you look at financial history, it's like he talked about a firm, a financial firm one day where they're like, 'Okay, uh, we owned IBM in the 1950s.' And I didn't know until I read Michael Dell's autobiography, right? Because IBM was it's like they're the most powerful and wealthiest company in the world. When me and you were born, okay? And Michael Dell's like, 'You have to understand like 1987 for me to like yell out to my dad.' He's like, 'What do you want to do for a living?' He's like, 'I want to compete with IBM. I'm in I'm a 19-year-old in my dorm room with a thousand dollars. like what kind of grandio ambition do you have? I went and like why is this so crazy? And I started it was the most valuable company in the world by market cap at the time. It was the first company to go over hundred billion in market cap, right? And this little 19-year-old kid's like, 'No, I think I can like have a go have a go at them.' But Nick Sleep talks about he came into this firm and he's reading their their how they talk about their investments and like we made a massive mistake. We owned IBM in the 1950s and we sold. and they're having this conversation in the 1970s and the leadership of the financial firm is like how do we avoid not doing this that one they they said if we just held that it would have uh the gain would have been more than all the assets we have under management like we can't do this that same year they sold Walmart they have Walmart in the 1970s so they made the same mistake and Buffett obviously greatest investor of all time he met Walt Disney he went and talked to Walt Disney in like the 60s and then he I think the he bought the socket 62 cents or something, right? And he he had like a 2x or 4x game. He's like, yeah, I sold Disney. So, it's that's why I was like, 'Oh, the best financial decisions are not financial decisions at all. You're doing it for another reason.' Which exactly what you said. It's like all Sam had to do was just keep doing Walmart. It's exactly what he did. I remember um I obviously live in Miami uh on a friend's boat in uh the marina there and there's like the boat like bigger than anything else around there. It's like and you can Google like who owns it. It was like it was Sam Walton's brother's daughter. Right. Right. Yeah. [laughter] Yeah. It's crazy. But but but I think you're on to something important. Um which is this notion around just um innately focusing um and and solving problems day by day builds quality, right? Um and and so uh quality for me is is less. Quality for me is uh focus. Quality for me is improving day by day. Um all of these things build quality and quality is rare. Um quality in people is rare. Quality in ideas is rare and we tend to make these things binary. Um and u we talked about it with people like I'd rather have that person that has one good idea in um in an entire hour and the rest is crap than someone who has you know 10 decent ideas but nothing is amazing. So that sort of differential equation between the 1% versus the rest is is so important and it's so important to understand and I think it's it's we again take it literally uh and we know about it because we can explain it in hindsight but we don't know when it's happening. So what is that qualitative process? What defines quality as it's happening before you can see it objectively from the outside. Those things are interesting and um I'm more and more drawn towards that um it is um for me at least very much looking at the people um in it um and looking at how they build judgment over time, the sort of feedback loop they create, the curiosity that they have about this and the obsession they have about trying to achieve the impossible. And for me, the impossible is something that's perfect. It's never going to exist. The whole universe is this thing where the only thing we've learned, we keep debating all these things about the universe, but the only thing we know is it's not static. It moves. It cannot by definition be like this one thing. It's just constantly expanding or contrasting or it's moving. It's it's um so so perfection just doesn't exist. But the aspiration towards perfection uh is a remarkable thing. I mean, I love Japan for this reason, right? like you you find these amazing individuals that literally spend their entire life. I was um in Japan maybe 10 days ago or something and I I I was in one of these temples u with a tea master who literally all he's done uh for the past uh I've asked him for the past 34 years is perfecting how to make tea. That's it. Nothing else. Uh and yes, the tea is amazing. But it's not just that. It's just seeing that obsession about quality, seeing that obsession about being not even 1% but like .1% or point.1% in something. And I think feel like you you you sort of asked about AI and all these things and and we can talk about art too but like uh for me like that is going to be even rarer like average is going to be possible to do even better than average is going to be possible to do with AI. But but that sort of thing about this guy doing this for 30 years just becoming the very very best about what they do or even what I find incredibly inspiring about you is just the relentlessness every single day towards the long term. It's it's like as you say it's the paradox about the long-term um um mindedness uh but the obsession on the daily basis u and against conventional odds against all these other things because I I I would imagine I don't know but I would imagine like when you started uh founders probably not many people knew who you were right nobody nobody right and so the the competition for your time was there was none. So you could probably sit for 6 hours or 8 hours etc. But today it's much harder um because there's many other things. There's people like myself and other people and you're like, 'Oh, wait a minute. Maybe this is a good idea to meet this person or there's a uh you know um a business opportunity that shows up and maybe people are asking like maybe you should invest and maybe you're tempted about it even but it's this is the thing that happens all the time and this is how greatness gets evaporated is you lose focus.' That's a great line. Greatness gets evaporated. the a lot of the stuff like when I talk on the podcast or everything I say on social media is like reminders to myself because I just read reread past highlights cuz like we forget that we forget and so I need a reminder and I just came across one. It's just like uh I have them presented to me in a random order. So it's like I never know what I'm going to read that day and it said uh it was Buffet. It's like the difference between successful people and and really successful people is really successful people say no to everything. Yeah. And this is exactly the constant thing where like I do have a question for you. Um, one going back to that, it's like I can't even explain why I did what I did because like I had close to no traction for 5 and a half years. Mhm. And now I look back, it's like there's no way I would do that today. Yeah. But somehow that person who I now greatly appreciate a lot that he feels like a different person. Yeah. that I cannot believe that is like what I'm most proud of is not like trying to make something that's great which I think is a selfish thing for us is like yes when you release it to the world you release Spotify you do all these things it's an act of service to other people but you're also doing it because like you it you have to it has to come out but I just cannot believe that I did that and I'm just like that's the thing I'm most more mo most more most proud of than anything else just like I had to do this I was willing to like drive Uber if I had to 10 bar do literally whatever I was like just give me enough time I'll figure it out. Now I didn't think it was going to take half a decade to figure out you have a ton of stories with Spotify with that line I feel like your work and your life like they're [snorts] one and the same. Yeah. The issue that I'm having now and in general is that I feel a lot of pressure because like I'm trying to change not just my life but like literally the trajectory of like my entire family and I feel very guilty when I don't work to the point where like you know I just got back from a crazy trip that people would love to go on and like I just felt guilty for not for like taking time out and off not working and I feel like this is like almost like a compulsion like I don't have control over it. Yeah. Do you have anything like that?
Sure. Um I do feel the same thing of course. Um but I'm I'm back to sort of time versus energy and management and um I don't know about you but I feel like the greatest ideas I've had comes from the most weird and wonderful places where I expected nothing out of it. So quite often when I do take some time off, I come back with like two or three some entirely new insights that just wouldn't have come if I just kept grinding that thing by just changing a scenery. Uh being in a different frame of mind, passing, giving um you know it's it's in the creative process, you know, um the greatest artists talk about some of the greatest songs literally take five minutes to write. Yeah. Which is amazing, right? But some songs are the ones you like work on it. Um you put it in a drawer and six months later totally unbeknownst to you. It clicks. You're not even working on that thing. It just sort of like, oh, that's it. And they go back and they do the song and it's like the greatest song ever. Um there's not one path to greatness. Um there's many. Um and I feel like the that's that's why I'm so obsessively focused on energy. So, you mean energy is like you just let that guide you? Yeah. It's like, hey, if I need a break right now, if I need to go for a walk or if I need to go spend time with my wife and kids or like Yeah. Is that what you mean? Yeah. 100%. Um and and I try to uh feel that. I feel like so much of our our um life just rips us apart from this thing and tries to get us on a schedule, per se. Um and it's not like I don't have a schedule. Of course, I do have one. And um but but I feel so much of it should be more guided by trying to understand ourselves more um intimately. Right? So, I I don't know if you've you've heard of this, but um going back to sleep, there there's been this kind of thing around um more recently, which I was surprised. One of my my 10-year-old daughter told me about this is around um um that um actually, you know, um she she sort of said like we have this idea that of eight hours and and she actually mentioned instead that um uh the real notion is um that we kind of did it almost like fasting. um like Ramadan is you know how it's based on the sun sometimes it could be 6 hours sometime it could be 12 hours so it used to be the sleep was actually in two periods uh so you didn't sleep one consecutive thing you sort of had a um 3 4 hours sleep uh and then you know you woke up and then you had another 3 4 hours sleep again and so much of that was based on light um and you know maybe it was driven by other things that were happening in our life too and for Nordic Well, what it actually meant uh going back as as late as the you know 18th century before we started having electric lights and candles and all these things is we actually slept a lot uh less on the summers and we slept a lot more in the winters guided by lights. So we keep thinking it's the static thing but it's actually again driven by the environment around us and so much um of this sort of innate knowledge about listening to ourselves understanding um our um innate personality understanding hunger like I can tell you as someone I've I've gained in periods of my life like um 40 lbs um in my worst negotiations etc. And and one of the problems I have now is that I literally don't know when I'm hungry because I ruined that sort of natural feeling in my body of of understanding when I'm hungry and when I'm not hungry. Um so um you know huge part of losing weight for me over the past few years was just really kind of innately starting to listening to my body again and like starting to figure out what satiation means because for me for instance I don't feel it until 20 minutes after. So like if if if I didn't like sort of eye what I should eat, I would just keep eating way more than I should. Um and so much of me has just been portion sizing of like understanding, okay, well that's probably going to be enough. And it doesn't feel like enough at that moment because I ruined my body, but 20 minutes later I understand it. And so I'm just trying to sort of again convey this sort of thing about understanding who you are, choosing the game you're playing, and realizing that there's life is not one game, but it's a thousand games. And there's this brilliant quote um by this guy called A Opia that there's another one of those things. I just circled it. Perfect timing. We're No, we're in perfect alignment. Go ahead. Well, I'm probably going to ruin the exact one. So So maybe you can read it. Okay, I'll read it. It's in life, the challenge is not so much to figure out how best to play the game. The challenge is to figure out what game you're playing. Yeah. And and for me, uh realizing that, um it it's just been eye opening, right? Uh it's another one that's on my wall. Uh because I feel like quite often when I'm talking to people um and and they're talking and trying to get life advice, they're not playing their game. they're playing someone else's game. Uh they're certainly not playing the game they want to be playing, but they somehow think that life is just one game where actually so much is about choosing the the right game for you. Um and so um yeah, I keep coming back to that like energy management is the same thing. You got to like uh create the environment around you that you want to do. You got to choose your game. Um, and when you do that and you start understanding that, you start becoming superhuman in your ability to get things done. Do you have more or less negative selft talk today than you did 20 years ago?
I I was I'm more comfortable with who I am um than I was 20 years ago. I was still very much my whole life I've been a searcher. I've been um you know uh when I was really young in my teens I went to every possible religious meetup you could be. Uh I went to everything. Uh I went to Hari Krishna centers. I went to to um you know um Jewish centers um you know mosques. I learned everything and I try to learn as much as possible because I I truly believe not enough people are are like I I've always been surprised why more people aren't interested in where we come from and what the purpose is of life. For me, those are sort of some of the greatest questions that I like many others don't have any idea obviously what what will happen but I think they're they're really important. So, I've always been a searcher and I think that naturally sort of like led me to sort of also be a searcher about myself, too. Um, and and trying to find sort of who I am. But the older I've gotten, the more and more things have started clicking about myself and the more unapologetic I am about. And so, your inner monologue gets less harsh. Yeah. because like you know not only do you stand out quite a lot um as an entrepreneur um and my interests were widely different than my social circuit growing up and all these things but the second thing is I'm an introvert um so um you know that doesn't help um so most people like being around a lot of people and they get energy from it I didn't so that obviously naturally um gets you to question yourself and you know against um many others as an entrepreneur I'm not the most eloquent person I'm not the smartest. You're pretty damn eloquent. Well, I I had to work on it. That's like the hard thing. I really really I'm not Listen, I've listened to all your episode or all your interviews and I did this before we were friends and I every time something comes out I was like, 'Oh, I got to watch that.' You're you're very you're not giving yourself enough credit. Like you are a very clear communicator. Like thank you. Um but but it's really a work product. Like I I wish there was more recorded stuff on my myself when I was like 20 and 21 because [laughter] I I was I was not great. Uh I was quite terrible. Um and and so I've just learned that it's a superpower. Uh and something I have to work on is getting my message across to other people to believe what I'm believing and see what I'm seeing in order to get them to want to come and join uh whatever thing we we're trying to will into this world. I have two more questions uh that I'm personally curious about. One is going to be a very weird question, but the first one is do you feel different? Okay, so like most of the people watching this are listening to this like so few people are going to be born in the projects in a tiny little we didn't even we'll have to do like this every year if you're fine with it. Uh because like the idea that you even like come from this tiny little island which I was like uh you know uh like got to visit and then you like competing with the biggest companies in the world and you win. It's just doesn't like we we didn't even get there. Yeah. But like you grow up, you have a great mom, you know, single family, not a lot of money, but and then now what I'm curious about is like your lived experience is so there's so few people alive that can actually empathize with that as because they also had it. So I'm very curious, do you feel different? Um, and what I mean by is like as you've grown from, you know, a kid in the projects. Yeah. Even if you had early success to now being, you know, one of the most successful entrepreneurs on the planet, which I know, don't do the face, [laughter] but it's undeniable fact. Like, do you feel different?
I think yes and no. Um, so I I feel different in in the same way a 40-year-old would feel different than a 10-year-old would do. I feel different in um I'm a product of all the experiences of my life and obviously I've been incredibly fortunate to uh I was counting the other day I've been to like 130 countries or something in my life. I've seen so many cultures, so many people. I have friends all over the world. All of that has shaped me into who I am. um I don't feel difference because innately many of the things the drive the long-termness the obsession the um um this sort of willingness on the paradox of winning on the one hand but then also trying to truly find a win-win um and work with people to try to find a win-win which is really important to me um uh has always been there uh and it's always been these things and like you said, you know, you kind of look back uh at uh yourself a few years back when you started off and saying, 'Wow, how did I do this?' Um and and you're amazed at that. I can feel the same way about young Daniel. I can feel myself about the young Daniel that worked every weekend um um you know non-stop 247 sacrificed so many things so many summers so many other things um you know I had a blast doing so but I didn't have a normal upbringing uh just because I was so obsessed about learning so obsessed about uh making it um and and it put me in the position of where I am today Um, and I actually feel like I owe that guy to keep pushing myself, right? Because there's so many things, there's so many demands of my time, so many things that tells me to to sort of downshift gear uh into an easier gear because life would be a lot more comfortable that way. This is not a comfortable thing. Impact to happiness. This is what so I think I text this to you. Um, but one one of the roles you play and I'm very grateful that you allowed us to like record this conversation because essentially what I text you is like you seem to have like no self-imposed ceiling on what you can learn or achieve and that spending time with you then transfers that belief to other people. And so like every single time, you know, obviously like I take notes of like what I learned from the conversation we have after the fact and I interpret it, it's like obviously not verbatim. I'm saying like what did I just learn from Daniel? What does apply to me? like, oh, you have all these. So, you think you don't I thought like I was ambitious and I like I didn't even realize till you kind of pulled the scales off my eyes. Like, you have this like limiting belief that you have no limits. There is no limits in life. And so, like you're hell of inspiring. One other question for you. Um, I'm obsessed with Game of Thrones to an unhealthy degree. Um, I rewatch the series all the time. I've read all the books. I read the encyclopedia. I'll read the family histories because I do think like like you can learn a lot from human nature in fiction and and my job and my obsession requires me to 99% of my reading is non-fiction and I don't I want to read more fiction and I I came across something recently because I'm going through Jeff Bezos shareholders again and then I read like what was my interpretation of this in the past and then I came across something that was fascinating. There's a there's a story in the prequels of Game of Thrones where uh two brothers um are fighting in this war. One of the brothers was pulled into the war that did not want to be there and he made the sacrifice because it was for the good of his family. Y he wind up dying in the war that he didn't want to to fight in the first place and his brother survived, got his remains, buried him and then put him in a grave with only one word on his tombstone and that one word was loyal. M. So hopefully you don't you 100 years from now when you do have a tombstone, if there was only going to be one word on that tombstone, what would you want it to be?
Um I I don't think too much anymore. I used to think a lot about how other people saw me or see me. Um, I don't do that anymore. Um, so I would I would choose more of a self-reflective uh one. Um um and I wish um only one thing um on my tombstone future one feels absurd talking about it, but uh would be that um he lived. That's a great one. That's a great way to end it. Daniel, I'm thankful for your time. Thankful for your friendship. You're one of the people I most admire and uh I really appreciate you doing this. Well, well, thank you so much and it's such a huge honor to be your first guest in this series. Yeah, of course. Thank you so much. Would have any either way. I hope you enjoyed this episode. Please remember to subscribe wherever you're listening and leave a review. And make sure you listen to my other podcast, Founders, for almost a decade. I've obsessively read over 400 biographies of history's greatest entrepreneurs searching for ideas that you can use in your work. Most of the guests you hear on this show first found me through Founders.