Gary Kibble1:36
Yeah, sure. Okay. I mean, I think I'd probably sort of talk at it maybe sort of thinking about it in four ways actually in terms of responding to that question. I think the important point by the way before I sort of walk through maybe kind of four big things that I call out is that you know this isn't sort of rocket science what I'm going to describe. A lot of it is about sort of behaviors and the way you think and position yourself. I think that is important because it says this is accessible to everyone in my opinion and experience. I just wanted to sort of make that point at the start. So as I say sort of four things I'll be calling out. The first one actually is a really simple one which is all around sort of being curious, being inquisitive. If I think right back to my early days at WHSmiths, I was probably always the first person to put my hand up and want to be involved in new programs or projects of work. And it was that sort of sense of kind of wanting to put myself forwards, even if actually I didn't think maybe at the time I had the skill set, I definitely think that was something that stood me in very good stead from the kind of early onset of my career. So the first thing I'd call out is that. So be curious, sort of be inquisitive and put your hand up. That'd be the first thing.
The second thing is I don't think it had a name in the early part of my career, but I think it's very well trailed now, which is all around kind of imposter syndrome. And I just wanted to bust a myth if it was there, which is, you know, people at senior levels in the organization don't suffer with imposter syndrome. I think that's nonsense. I think we absolutely do. And just to call out that, you know, I suffer in inverted commas, but I sort of have faced into that at many points in my career and I face into it now actually and I'm sort of at peace with it. So the second thing I'd say is stop stressing about it. The reality is everybody has it. And what I'd say actually is I've sort of spun it a little bit from being a negative to a positive because for me the points at which I feel that I'm in that kind of mode of imposter syndrome is probably the point when I'm actually stretching myself most because I'm outside my comfort zone. So I tried to turn it from a positive to a kind of learning experience. So as I say, the second thing is just don't worry about it. Like hold it lightly and we all suffer with it. That's the second thing I'd say.
The third thing actually and it was really lovely to hear you say what you just said because the third thing I'd say is look after people. Yeah. Look after the people that are around you. So you know one of my favorite quotes that I try and stay true to is the Maya Angelou quote which many people will know but I sort of paraphrase it as you know people will never remember what you said. They'll never remember what you did. They'll always remember the way you made them feel. And I take that to heart and I really go out of my way to try and make people feel special. So that is a really important part of kind of my DNA and I think what allowed me to be a CMO in an organization like Wix.
And then the last one is something I really struggled with actually, but if I was a dog, I'd definitely be a Labrador. You know, I love to be liked. I need to be walked and fed and occasionally stroked. And I think probably one of the things that I've sort of grown into is acknowledging that not everyone is going to like me. And that has to be okay. And definitely in the early part of my career, I always wanted to be liked and therefore I avoided confrontation and difficult conversations as I searched for kind of serenity and sort of friendships. And I think in hindsight, I think if I'd learned the lesson earlier, that that isn't always going to be true. That would have been helpful. So, those are four things I'd call out, Susie.