Layla Kasha12:19
I think the most important lesson in general I've taken, and this again is from my dad, you got to fail a lot and you fail fast and you fail forward. The really cool stuff happens when you fall on your face. I speak a lot to women's groups and I always say, 'Hi, my name is Layla and I'm a complete and total failure. I'm a professional failure. I do it a lot, I've gotten really good at it.' I do think women struggle with failing. We feel like we have to do everything and can't let anything slip or make a mistake. The challenge we have as women is we got to be able to fail or we're not going to learn and grow and nothing cool is going to happen because if you don't take a risk, you're never going to figure out what works. I've had a really good soft spot to fall with my family. I have a great husband. When I fall on my face, I know they're not going to be like, 'What are you doing?' When I was a kid, I'd come home from school and my dad would say, 'What'd you screw up today?' People get horrified when I tell them that, but I'm so glad he did because it made me feel like that was okay. When I said I screwed something up, he'd say, 'Okay, well, how are we not going to do that again next time?' It gives you a really good base for being a risk taker. I guarantee you I would not be sitting doing what I do and loving it like I do if I wasn't willing to take a risk. I think it's pretty stupid that at 35 I was like, 'I think I want to go into marketing.' I'd never done it, didn't take a class, did a lot of bootstrapping and boot camps that were marketing related, but I liked it. I'm going to go try. People think you're crazy when you say stuff like that. I think that's a big life lesson in general. Marketing wise, my marketing lesson would be: you're not the customer. Maybe you are, but most of the time you're not. You need to be really savvy in that. Oftentimes when I talk to people, they say, 'Well, I've never seen an ad for Grocery Outlet or something else.' I was having this conversation with somebody last week at a breakfast about a restaurant brand. He said, 'Layla, I don't think they're doing a good job marketing because I've never seen their ads.' I said, 'Bob, you're 82 years old. You are not the demo. They're not trying to find you. You should be saying it's really smart, they're being super effective with their money because I don't see the ad. You're not looking for an $8 salad, Bob.' He was like, 'Oh, I never thought of that.' You have to always keep in the top of your mind who is my customer. It's not about what you like or what the CEO likes or what other business partners like. It's what your customer is going to respond to. One of the hardest things you have to say in the boardroom is, 'Hey guys, it's not about you. I'm not talking to you. Does anyone at this table do their own grocery shopping every week?' You might get one or two hands, but generally you aren't going to get a lot of people in high-end positions that are out every week doing their grocery shopping. I'm trying to hit the people that love Grocery Outlet, want this experience, are doing their daily shop. Sometimes that's not who is sitting in the room with you, and you have to remind them, and sometimes it's not you, and that's okay. You just got to keep the customer in mind.