In 2003, when we were made members of De Beers for the first time, the national media asked me, 'Tell me the secret of your success in one sentence, one line.' I said, 'Not in one line, I'll tell you in one word: Swabhav (nature).'
What is this? Whatever work you do, it happens from what? From nature. Naturally, right? It is natural. Now where does nature reside? Brother, where does nature reside? In the heart. No, where does nature reside? Inside us. It is inside us. Inside us. Heart. All answers wrong. Nature is in the brain, in the mind. Nature is in the mind, and from where does nature come? From the mind. We say 'mind' today. And there are four types of mind: Manas, Buddhi, Chitta, and Ahankara. When the mind makes resolutions and alternatives, that is called Manas. Buddhi is when it decides, 'I have to go to university today.' That is called Buddhi. Chitta is that which contemplates the invisible power, God, loved ones, mother, father, friends. When it contemplates, that is called Chitta. And when it does ego, that is called Ahankara. Four types of mind: Manas, Buddhi, Chitta, and Ahankara. In this mind, nature is in the mind. So nature resides in the mind. We created the mind, brother. Who created this brain? Nature created it. It is natural. So nature is also natural within it.
So today I will give you a tip: In this world, no woman or man is bad. The one whose nature is beautiful, everyone is beautiful to them. The one whose nature is bad, everyone is bad to them. In our society or village, when a daughter comes as a bride to her in-laws' house, everyone goes to see her. 'How is the bride?' At that time, everyone looks - do you know? The whole society looks at whether she is tall, short, fat, thin, fair, dark, beautiful, or ugly. They look at these four things. But after six months, the whole society comes and asks, do you know? 'How is your daughter-in-law's nature? Has she blended into the family?' Then for the whole life, nature runs. Dungariji Maharaj used to say: 'The one whose nature is beautiful, even God loves them.' All of you have very beautiful natures. You are all beautiful and have beautiful natures. So you are very... Do you ever get angry? No. So my seminar is 20 minutes, today there is no time, but online you might get it. So I will just give you a gist: When someone says something you don't like, you just have to think: 'Who created my brain? God. Who created my brother's brain? God. Who created my mother's? God. Who created my teacher's? God. Who created my friend's? God. So everything is created by God. So if someone doesn't say what we like, but says something opposite, you should think: 'In this brain, there are crores of cells. If one cell is placed crookedly by God, then that person speaks crookedly.' So you won't blame anyone. Instead, you will feel pity for the other person: 'Poor thing, God placed one cell crookedly, and the poor thing speaks crookedly.' And if God had placed such a cell in me, then 'O God, your great grace that you kept my cells straight.' So when will you get tense? When will you get angry? Say thank you.
Yes, two minutes. Yes, please.
